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https://ideapod.com/being-single-in-...0relationships.
. Based on the Bureau of Labor statistics, 50% of people over 40 are single. This means almost as many people are single in their forties as some are in relationships.
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The share of adults ages 25 to 54 who are currently married fell from 67% in 1990 to 53% in 2019, while the share cohabiting more than doubled over that same period (from 4% in 1990 to 9% in 2019).3
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Men don't like raising other men's children. Men are genetically repulsed by other men's genes. Men are also not kosher with being the #2 guy in a woman's life, let alone playing second fiddle to some other guy's kid. And unless the woman was a widow, being a single mom is indicative of poor decision making in the past.
Admittedly, an older man may not have the luxury to pine for, let alone, hold out for a childless woman. Over time most women will have children and with a 50% divorce rate single moms are an inevitability in every middle-aged man's life. But for younger men who are yet to be married, as well as young women who are not at menopause's door, it is perfectly reasonable and self-respecting to demand your future wife not have another man's kid.
Unfortunately, what a man wants is not what he is going to get these are two different things as nearly 40% of single women between the ages of 18-35 are single moms. Worse, the better looking a woman is the higher percent chance she has a kid in tow (this phenomenon was particularly noticeable when surveying online dating profiles in rural areas). The fact is, whether a man likes it or not, beautiful women attract handsome men and the result is children. Sometimes these people stay married, sometimes they don't, sometimes they were never married at all. But the end result is the average young man today is looking at a dating pool where 4 in every 10 women have some other guy's kid.
40% of single women between 18-35 are moms?
Just sit and think about that. Out of all the single women out there, 4 in 10 already have some other guy's kid. And what's worse is they don't see a problem with that. Worse than that, society and certainly single moms themselves celebrate single motherhood. And even worse than that, since single moms make up such a large percent of single females, most men today have resigned themselves to cuckoldry, reluctantly accepting they might have to settle for a single mom. 100 years ago not a single self-respecting man would consider dating, let alone marrying a woman with another man's kid.
Now, they're not only celebrated, but men are shamed, even accused of misogyny if a man dare state their preference to eschew single moms.
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Also, men are not encouraged enough to be emotionally invested in their children. Either they should "act like a man" and bring in all the cash, or they are fully absent, both of whom I believe are not fulfilling for the children.
I believe a father should be emotionally close to his children. It's not odd for a man to be that, but in society they are told that it's not normal.
From my experience, the most masculine men are are some of the most caring men.
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I somewhat agree, but you have to look into the background of a single mother. Is she single because the man loved changed?
Or is she single because she was always promiscuous cheating or picking bad personalities or is toxic?
Can she cook? Is she willing to work at least part time?
Also for the mother her children should always come before you.
Same as a father if you are seperated. My child would always be first before woman I am just dating
The part of child support is where you make the strongest arguements.
Lets be real the game is rigged in child custody and child support.
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When you reach a certain age (35 and above), it's hard not to date single moms.
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Men: Never date or marry single mothers
common sense really
but plenty of men have no sense when it comes to women.....hence the reason why even single mothers have no end of male admirers (as long as they're half decent ofcourse)
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