Insecure about my breasts

[calxpal]

So this is kind of a personal and touchy subject but I've tried to get over it but it can be hard, but I happen to have very small breasts and as much as I try to be happy of the fact It's hard for me to ignore the fact that women with bigger breasts get treated as being more mature, more feminine, and more attractive and I've felt this puts me at a major disadvantage especially when it comes to getting interest from guys and maybe even when finding work. There is also a lot of cute clothing I'm uncomfortable wearing because it reveals how I'm lacking and I feel it just looks awkward. and I've tried push up bras but I find they are uncomfortable and feel fake. And on top of it I've also received horrible degrading insults over my breast size. And sure yes there are bound to be many people who find small breasts attractive, but obviously the majority of society favors large breasts but yes I imagine they have disadvantages. And sorry for the miserable thread but I'm trying my best not to paint myself as a victim too much. I don't completely hate my breasts but I'm concerned with how they affect others perception of me, and I understand some of the bias can't be overcome.

Anyways please keep the responses simple and short, helpful, and polite. The moment someone writes something mean or inappropriate I will close this thread down for good. It may seem weird I'm posting this on TA haha lol but I tried asking about this on Reddit and I was met with mixed and even a few disrespectful responses. This is a serious topic.

Also you can be as honest as you want and even say very small breasts are ugly lol I want to hear everyone's honest opinions (but not personal insults). How do you think I can overcome my insecurity? And are my feelings understandable?

Also NO requests for photos or anything like that.

Lets just hope this thread doesn't turn into a shitstorm but I have a feeling it might lol.

[ecptr]

How small are they?

[Hulu]

Lol

[Comealongwithme]

Who cares what the world thinks? Love yourself.

[Chron]

Every woman I have ever dated, including current girlfriend, have all had small breasts. Bigger doesn't always mean better, and smaller isn't necessarily a bad thing either.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

You can't live your life caring what other people think.

[Jingle Bell]

wow, sorry you had to listen to these horrible comments, that a rly delicated thread but anyway
Well, I don't really know how to help here so what I can do is at least pay my condolences, don't care about that, everyone will always try to find a "defect" in people to laugh about it and try to feel better, I hope that if feel better about it, I know how annoying it is to have to listen to bad comments just for who you are

[calxpal]

How small are they?

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[Jana]

I don't know what to say. American society is weirdly over-sexualized I guess.

I have above average large breasts for my frame and I have never received special treatment about it (better treatment from men, I mean). Here nobody cares, especially not at workplace lol. Our men are way less sexualized. I'm even considered tomboy/boyish looking by some so big tits don't help lmao.

sorry for this reply not being helpful, but I think breast size don't matter much (maybe in US it does), it's more about your personality.

If you are catty and seductive you will get a lot of preferential treatment from men, even with small breasts I think. Men go crazy if you act seductively towards them, I mean I witnessed this when seeing other women in action many times.

so my advice is to learn playing the game, game of seduction, rather than thinking about your bra size.

[gixajo]

Small breast is beautiful.

The problem is your insecurity.