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    Quote Originally Posted by eastern View Post
    Fellas, is it gay to hang out with your friends? Is it gay to be social? Perhaps you see gay as an insult because you yourself felt weird when he said that, maybe you have feelings yourself...nothing wrong with that! No need to use a racial slur to come over as more masculine. Nothing gay about socializing with a friend. And if he tries something that's assault and has nothing to do with his sexuality dude. No worries. You are overthinking.
    No I just think it's a bit weird that's all. I would probably decline the offer

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    You should have asked him if he wanted to watch the Netflix, naked, in the hottub, on your phone together. His response wouldn't leave you guessing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    This weekend, he has never invited me before so I find It suspicious, I asked "what plans you have for this weekend nigga" I thought he was going to say Invite some bitches and chill.

    But no he said just a couple of drinks you and I and watch Netflix
    Go or don't go. It is probably innocent. if you do go, give yourself an easy out if you have to flee quickly.

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    He will put the meat under your nose

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    I would like to know what Mortimer thinks, he seems that have Invited friends come over just to watch Netflix.

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    Cool in my experience, it is like offering some one a ride home from my book-store when it is raining

    the homosexual was confused
    (when we arrived at his destination)
    about whether he should get out of my station-wagon.

    the woman was expecting some relief
    without aggravating her carpal tunnel syndrome.

    the man was cool with it — he even joked about it:


    How do you know I'm not a serial-killer?

    my response was "I was playing the percentages:
    what are the odds of two serial-killers being in this car on rainy night?"
    as one of my hands moved from the steering-wheel
    and out of his sight.


    then, we laughed.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    I have no idea, would you invite a friend just to drink and watch Netflix?
    Not specifically Netflix but yes, I have not any problem to go to the home of a friend to drink, and see anything on tv that can be of the interest of both.(in the past, because I haven't drunk anything in years).

    But I only do something like this with real friends. I mean, people I've known since I was a kid.

    Could be just an excuse to not to be alone or just talk with liberty in an environment of trust about any personal issue that can worry him.

    But it is normal that being you bisexual, your case has different nuances, so I do not dare to presume if this friend of yours has different intentions.

    Does he know you feel sexual attraction to men too?

    In any case, I think that if ambiguity can create problems of mistrust, it is best to be honest from the beginning, always saying things precisely and delicately, if he's your friend, I suppose you could talk to him honestly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixajo View Post
    Not specifically Netflix but yes, I have not any problem to go to the home of a friend to drink, and see anything on tv that can be of the interest of both.(in the past, because I haven't drunk anything in years).

    But I only do something like this with real friends. I mean, people I've known since I was a kid.

    Could be just an excuse to not to be alone or just talk with liberty in an environment of trust about any personal issue that can worry him.

    But it is normal that being you bisexual, your case has different nuances, so I do not dare to presume if this friend of yours has different intentions.

    Does he know you feel sexual attraction to men too?

    In any case, I think that if ambiguity can create problems of mistrust, it is best to be honest from the beginning, always saying things precisely and delicately, if he's your friend, I suppose you could talk to him honestly.
    No lose man y si lo sabe, personal mente no creo que es muy adecuado en la noche muy tarde emborracharnos y ver "Netflix"

    Lmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    This weekend, he has never invited me before so I find It suspicious, I asked "what plans you have for this weekend nigga" I thought he was going to say Invite some bitches and chill.

    But no he said just a couple of drinks you and I and watch Netflix
    This is very normal, my friends and I do that a lot. I think you're looking at it from the perspective of a bisexuality dude. He probably just want to watch Netflix and chill, literally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    I would like to know what Mortimer thinks, he seems that have Invited friends come over just to watch Netflix.
    Yeah but we don't know how it ends up. Maybe Morti is regularly trying to get physical. Not because of being homosexual but out of desperation.
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