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    Quote Originally Posted by rothaer View Post
    Yeah but we don't know how it ends up. Maybe Morti is regularly trying to get physical. Not because of being homosexual but out of desperation.
    Maybe it's a bit different for Europeans but with latinos or mexicans In general there's at least one chick invited to chill.


    I personality don't think my sexual preferences have anything to do honestly, maybe Europeans among men do things that will be considered "homoerotic" In the eyes of different cultures.


    Like kissing between men In Italy as some type of greeting

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    Quote Originally Posted by lei.talk View Post
    the homosexual was confused
    (when we arrived at his destination)
    about whether he should get out of my station-wagon.

    the woman was expecting some relief
    without aggravating her carpal tunnel syndrome.

    the man was cool with it — he even joked about it:


    How do you know I'm not a serial-killer?

    my response was "I was playing the percentages:
    what are the odds of two serial-killers being in this car on rainy night?"
    as one of my hands moved from the steering-wheel
    and out of his sight.


    then, we laughed.

    You are just coming to me as a closeted homo at least with your hateful vibes.


    It's 2023 not the 1960s

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    Maybe it's a bit different for Europeans but with latinos or mexicans In general there's at least one chick invited to chill.


    I personality don't think my sexual preferences have anything to do honestly, maybe Europeans among men do things that will be considered "homoerotic" In the eyes of different cultures.


    Like kissing between men In Italy as some type of greeting
    I was kidding when elaborating what Morti might do. Such a thing would be totally off all tracks.

    Also, such a men kissing as for greeting is unknown to me. Hugging is sometimes done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    No lose man y si lo sabe, personal mente no creo que es muy adecuado en la noche muy tarde emborracharnos y ver "Netflix"

    Lmao
    You have doubts about what he really means by inviting you to his house, so clear your doubts by doing what you have done with this thread, but instead of asking us, who can only make conjectures, ask him directly.

    Once everything is clear, the worst that can happen is that he doesn't invite you to his house and stops being your friend, the best thing that could happen is that you will have more confidence, and whether he's gay or not, you spend an interesting evening, and be more friends.

    But well, I can understand that one of the problems that all those who cannot show themselves openly as they are or what they think have, who cannot be completely sincere with almost anyone because they may have an adverse response from the others.

    So if you are afraid that if you tell him something about your sexual preferences he will become violent, tell him alone, but in a public place and in the light of day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixajo View Post
    You have doubts about what he really means by inviting you to his house, so clear your doubts by doing what you have done with this thread, but instead of asking us, who can only make conjectures, ask him directly.

    Once everything is clear, the worst that can happen is that he doesn't invite you to his house and stops being your friend, the best thing that could happen is that you will have more confidence, and whether he's gay or not, you spend an interesting evening, and be more friends.

    But well, I can understand that one of the problems that all those who cannot show themselves openly as they are or what they think have, who cannot be completely sincere with almost anyone because they may have an adverse response from the others.

    So if you are afraid that if you tell him something about your sexual preferences he will become violent, tell him alone, but in a public place and in the light of day.
    I keep my sexuality to myself half of my family don't even know, how I behave here doesn't mean that's my true reflected personality many bitches beg me to fuck them literally .

    I was just curious for a general advice or asking , and yet he's a good friend might suck to lose him but what ever life goes on..

    I personally get vibes of many strong closeted homos on Apricity tbh as someone who has or had male straight friends going to Gay bars with their girlfriends with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    (...)
    It's 2023 not the 1960s
    The social development regarding this is stunning, especially how developments diverge. In the 1970's and the early 1980's there were (in Germany) workshops within the liberal party and the greens that were called "BAG SchwuP (Bundesarbeitsgemeinschaft Schwule, Päderasten und Transsexuelle)" and alike (working community of homosexuals, pedophiles and transsexuals). While pedophiles have developed to trigger mainstream individuals to express the wish for death sentences for those, homosexuality has become kind of celebrated even, a close to unique condition in history considering the last 2000 years.

    Fashions do change over time and I'll be curious to see how that may be in 30 years.
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    Laredo, why can’t we straight guys and gays just be friends without thinking this way. Maybe the society isn’t ready for that unfortunately, imagine someone who knows my parents would see me with a gay friend, my mother would get a heart attack. We need a grindr for friendship between, like Turks would say, a normal guy and a „round“ guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    I keep my sexuality to myself half of my family don't even know, how I behave here doesn't mean that's my true reflected personality many bitches beg me to fuck them literally .

    I was just curious for a general advice or asking , and yet he's a good friend might suck to lose him but what ever life goes on..

    I personally get vibes of many strong closeted homos on Apricity tbh as someone who has or had male straight friends going to Gay bars with their girlfriends with me.
    I believe that few of us here are going to be able to give you advice that is better than the conclusion that you yourself can draw about all this.

    But if he's really a friend of yours, he shouldn't care that you're gay, and if he turns you down as a friend because you're gay, then he's not your friend.

    It is a rather naive approach, very simple and of little practical application in your case that have many different nuances and particular circunstances, but I think it is correct.

    Sincerity with everyone (Unless you're competing for something, in which you don't have to lie, but you don't have to show all your cards either), but even more sincerity with close people. My true friends are my family too, I have few and since child.

    Your last sentence makes me very funny. In my environment I have some gay acquaintances, and it has always struck me that they always end up suspecting that any other man who shows closeness or sympathy to them is a closeted gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gixajo View Post
    I believe that few of us here are going to be able to give you advice that is better than the conclusion that you yourself can draw about all this.

    But if he's really a friend of yours, he shouldn't care that you're gay, and if he turns you down as a friend because you're gay, then he's not your friend.

    It is a rather naive approach, very simple and of little practical application in your case that have many different nuances and particular circunstances, but I think it is correct.

    Sincerity with everyone (Unless you're competing for something, in which you don't have to lie, but you don't have to show all your cards either), but even more sincerity with close people. My true friends are my family too, I have few and since child.

    Your last sentence makes me very funny. In my environment I have some gay acquaintances, and it has always struck me that they always end up suspecting that any other man who shows closeness or sympathy to them is a closeted gay.
    In regards to the last part, the way I see It Is "I'm a secure heterosexual man with no complexes neither I'm Insecure with my sexuality"


    To me going with their girlfriends was like alerting other males "back off I'm not into dudes don't you see?" and the same time true sexuality secure guys.


    I wonder how many guys from here would do that same? yall bunch of closeted fags. (this Is directed to those who are you only know yourself) not the whole members.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laredo View Post
    I would like to know what Mortimer thinks, he seems that have Invited friends come over just to watch Netflix.
    I dont know depends on the culture I guess. To me it is not weird just to watch a movie or netflix with a male friend. I hanged out with friends drinking, where there were no chicks, we also watched porn together a few times. Do you think that is homo erotic? I dont know if that is gay, i dont think it is. But it could have another meaning not literal like inviting a woman to a "coffee" at your house. It could mean that what you think. Does he know you are bisexual or homosexual?
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