Women of TA, would you allow your man to sleep with another woman?

[reboun]

Women of TA, would you allow your man to sleep with another woman?

[Jana]

no

[InmostLight]

I don't see it as my business. Just want him to be happy (-:

[Hithaeglir]

Would you be happy with your wife/girlfriend sleeping with other men? Most likely no, so there you got your answer

[Celestia]

Of course not.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

I don't see it as my business. Just want him to be happy (-:

It is your business.

What if he gets another woman pregnant? Now the resources and his time that would have been directed toward your children must be split between your children and another woman's child (or he can be a douche and ignore his responsibility and only do the bare minimum that is legally required, which still is a redirection of resources away from your children).

[InmostLight]

It is your business.

What if he gets another woman pregnant? Now the resources and his time that would have been directed toward your children must be split between your children and another woman's child (or he can be a douche and ignore his responsibility and only do the bare minimum that is legally required).

I didn't think of that, I assumed he would be as responsible with them as he is with me. I think I can trust that, so hypothetically, it wouldn't bother me. I want him to have the best life possible, but even at my highest capacity, I'm just not capable of that. I think different people have different ways of fulfilling their needs, and most literature I've looked at shows that men are not naturally monogamous.

I did bring this up once, though, and he was pretty upset and asserted that he would never want to be with another woman. My values for hypotheticals are still the same though. And I also would not want another partner. I'd rather buy a witch cottage in a swamp and die alone than be with someone else

[Petalpusher]

Men are as faitfhul as their options. No men with a lot of opportunities is gonna be faithful in the long run, but it's cute to believe it. Very few will admit it upfront, so you either get a guy that won't have these opportunities (will cheat even more at the first occasion) or accept it and look away knowing he will still come back to you. Maybe if you are so special he will deny all the hot women he will ever meet for you (possible but don't hold your breath). I know it might suck but that's the reality of it. We can also separate the sex to the feelings, much more than women do, who when they cheat is usually to find a new partner, that doesn't happen as much with men.

[Sylvanas]

I didn't think of that, I assumed he would be as responsible with them as he is with me. I think I can trust that, so hypothetically, it wouldn't bother me. I want him to have the best life possible, but even at my highest capacity, I'm just not capable of that. I think different people have different ways of fulfilling their needs, and most literature I've looked at shows that men are not naturally monogamous.

I did bring this up once, though, and he was pretty upset and asserted that he would never want to be with another woman. My values for hypotheticals are still the same though. And I also would not want another partner. I'd rather buy a witch cottage in a swamp and die alone than be with someone else

Interesting view...I understand that. But not all men are not monogamous. If he was upset, trust him that you are all he needs. You can never be 100% sure in something, ofc, but I know many men can be trusted.

[Seya]

I didn't think of that, I assumed he would be as responsible with them as he is with me. I think I can trust that, so hypothetically, it wouldn't bother me. I want him to have the best life possible, but even at my highest capacity, I'm just not capable of that. I think different people have different ways of fulfilling their needs, and most literature I've looked at shows that men are not naturally monogamous.

I did bring this up once, though, and he was pretty upset and asserted that he would never want to be with another woman. My values for hypotheticals are still the same though. And I also would not want another partner. I'd rather buy a witch cottage in a swamp and die alone than be with someone else

Monogamy is a choice for both men and women. This is what defines us as humans - the choices we make, the way we distinguish good from wrong, the way we put someone else's happiness before our own desires. It’s not always about you and you alone. When you have people you love in your life, you need to think about the repercussions your actions might have on them. It is ok to expect from your partner to be faithful to you. I think telling your partner that he can have someone else in his life is lack of consideration.