What is for you a toxic relationship?

[Mortimer]

Do you consider it already a toxic relationship if it is a joke? Like she is skinny and he is fat, and she says hey fat man do i need to roll you? Or he is older she is younger, and she calls him grandfather? What about race if she is white and he is black, and she calls him during sex nigger, "give me your bbc nigger fuck me nigger"? What if both like that kind of dirty talk?

[Mortimer]

Bump

[Blondie]

Toxic is when you do something what your partner doesnt want. If a relationship is based on such fetishes what you said, and its ok for everyone, then no problem, its not toxic.