Women

[CosmoLady]

As for the “slutty woman” topic I maybe can enlighten that men are attracted to this only for a higher probability of a quick success in having sex. Essentially no man is interested in a slutty woman as a wife.

Exactly. "Extroverted and sexy women" are popular for sex not for marriage, and they have more fun.
They will swing from branch to branch until they find the highest/best one, because they are able to.

If they are unable to keep a man, and become "too experienced", and are advancing in age,
then they may settle down with someone who does not mind their past, such as an older man.

[Insuperable]

Exactly. "Extroverted and sexy women" are popular for sex not for marriage, and they have more fun.
They will swing from branch to branch until they find the highest/best one, because they are able to.

If they are unable to keep a man, and become "too experienced", and are advancing in age,
then they may settle down with someone who does not mind their past, such as an older man.

An older cuck guy.

[Universe]

Because they realise the reality and have to settle for each other. Doesnt contradict what I said.

Average looking men doesnt have a say in anything and have to settle for what they can get. Women can turn down men and often do. The ones that are not way below average. Ugly women have it much harder than ugly men.
But average women cant always get what they want, so they have to compromise and settle for what they can get.

Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
Men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

[Insuperable]

There is an objective truth which is hard to admit for many because it exposes the real nature of women, which is again understandable from their point of view but hard to gulp on for some guys, who would vindicate them anyway even if they were saying the moon is made out of cheese. No magician wants to see his sleight of hand revealed to the public.

This is from David Buss "Evolutionnary psychology" which is the golden standard and as significant when it comes to human behaviors as general relativity or Darwin's study of the Galapos. Here is an abstract but i encourage anyone interested in serious sociology to read it. It hits you like a ton of brick several times even if some of us might have figured it out in their own life experiences, it just put it into words and actual hard repeatable datas.


In every single cultures around the globe, women valued the same things (and men too), while they are completely different cultures that had no contacts with each others, some highly developped, some still very primitives. Proving in substance it's entirely biological rather than anything cultural.


It's really mind blowing to try deny this with anedoctical evidences, i mean "cool story" but men absolutely have to operate on reality, they don't have the luxury to pray to bump into females several folds out of standard deviation. Which obviously exist and you can be plesantly surprised for sure from time to time but you harshly find out early in life, if you rely on believing in exceptions it will bite back soon or later and you ll achieve nothing. Better to embrace the cold truths and deal with it. It's probably even why men have dominated humanity all along, it's not that we are any smarter or stronger, it's that delusion leaded to failure and likely death quickly not that long ago so generally we will avoid it like plague. The society we ve built would collapse in a week if we were just to rely on "feelings" to run the infrastructures. That trait rejection might even be a better indicator of success than intelligence per say.

It's a cold truth that has to sink in, but it's hard not to bug a person. At least it's hard for me.

Women remind me of Tamagotchi. In essence what is a difference between women and pets? If you feed them they like you. If you don't they don't like you. It's just that this pet can take half of your things.

It seems they love to be viewed as pets.

[Immanenz]

There is an objective truth which is hard to admit for many because it exposes the real nature of women, which is again understandable from their point of view but hard to gulp on for some guys, who would vindicate them anyway even if they were saying the moon is made out of cheese. No magician wants to see his sleight of hand revealed to the public.

This is from David Buss "Evolutionnary psychology" which is the golden standard and as significant when it comes to human behaviors as general relativity or Darwin's study of the Galapos. Here is an abstract but i encourage anyone interested in serious sociology to read it. It hits you like a ton of brick several times even if some of us might have figured it out in their own life experiences, it just put it into words and actual hard repeatable datas.


In every single cultures around the globe, women valued the same things (and men too), while they are completely different cultures that had no contacts with each others, some highly developped, some still very primitives. Proving in substance it's entirely biological rather than anything cultural.


It's really mind blowing to try deny this with anedoctical evidences, i mean "cool story" but men absolutely have to operate on reality, they don't have the luxury to pray to bump into females several folds out of standard deviation. Which obviously exist and you can be plesantly surprised for sure from time to time but you harshly find out early in life, if you rely on believing in exceptions it will bite back soon or later and you ll achieve nothing. Better to embrace the cold truths and deal with it. It's probably even why men have dominated humanity all along, it's not that we are any smarter or stronger, it's that delusion leaded to failure and likely death quickly not that long ago so generally we will avoid it like plague. The society we ve built would collapse in a week if we were just to rely on "feelings" to run the infrastructures. That trait rejection might even be a better indicator of success than intelligence per say.

Yes, absolutly and this is what is desired as a quality for dominant alpha male- even by other men- you want a guy on top of the hierarchy who will be competent pragmatic and realistic, but who has vision and who does not fall in love like a little teenager, but who sees relationships extremly pragmatic and does waste a lot of time about it- the passion should be in a rationalized self interest to lead. Now, we know historically a lot of the greatest leaders and nowadays politicians showed signs of the the submissive bitch inside in them, and it costs them and their country a lot- but usually that is something we learn only by historically facts or scandals later on, because there is often so much trust put into them, (in the top of the hierarchy but also the unconscious mass) that its too late to react because the difficulty of the problem is very great, and than we actually need another alpha dog who decides as quickly what is the right direction, vision etc.

[Kess]

Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
Men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

You pretty much summarized it.

[Scarface F]

Men who reach top positions in politics or business usually have over average expressed "dark triad" traits compared to general population.

[Kess]

Yes, absolutly and this is what is desired as a quality for dominant alpha male- even by other men- you want a guy on top of the hierarchy who will be competent pragmatic and realistic, but who has vision and who does not fall in love like a little teenager, but who sees relationships extremly pragmatic and does waste a lot of time about it- the passion should be in a rationalized self interest to lead. Now, we know historically a lot of the greatest leaders and nowadays politicians showed signs of the the submissive bitch inside in them, and it costs them and their country a lot- but usually that is something we learn only by historically facts or scandals later on, because there is often so much trust put into them, (in the top of the hierarchy but also the unconscious mass) that its too late to react because the difficulty of the problem is very great, and than we actually need another alpha dog who decides as quickly what is the right direction, vision etc.

Meh, too much pragmatism.

[thisismyaccount]

Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
Men marry who they want, women marry who they can.

If average men and women could pick way above average men and women like 9's and 10's, the vast majority will go for those than each other. its normal and common sense.

Now they fuck and marry the ones they want to and can. As in each other for most part

[Kess]

Men who reach top positions in politics or business usually have over average expressed "dark triad" traits compared to general population.

People always say that. Are there any high-quality academical research about it?