Single Mother (Reality Check)

[Dušan]

I don't have any STD and have never got one. Despite my thirst for sex I actually limited myself you probably had more sexual partners than me.

And If I get a wife I would do my best to not cheat her.

You either choosed that way, or were born that way.
I am against violance toward this population, they exist, and existed in past.

You now have your freedom and no force to get married to hide what you are.
So there is no reason any woman to suffer and lives in delusion by marrying a homosexual.

[Laredo]

You either choosed that way, or were born that way.
I am against violance toward this population, they exist, and existed in past.

You now have your freedom and no force to get married to hide what you are.
So there is no reason any woman to suffer and lives in delusion by marrying a homosexual.

But I don't want to end up being single /alone despite both of my parents are living Is like If they are death.

I can't count on them on anything and already had two terrible experiences with man. I rather have a wife who can take care of me.

[Laredo]

If I was straight I would move to croatia and marry Feiichy and give her 3 beautiful Castiza daughters

she's a smart talented woman.

[Aldaris]

As long as Feiichy and Insuperable draw breath, this thread is bound to withstand the heat death of the universe.

[Dušan]

My controlling mother poisoned my relationship with Stears a great deal. I wouldn't repeat same mistake twice.
I agree with Victor. Except that on family property one child should stay, so it stays in the family for generations to come.

I'm planning to move to central Croatia (not Zagreb) next year. I live here alone, but parents are close and my mother would try to drive Stears away, I know it. She hates him.

Back in the day my mom tried to sabotage a lot of my relationships too. She HATED my husband. Was convinced he was gonna steal me away from her and that he was a terrible dude and kept making fun of him for being short. A lot of stuff happened between now and then, but now they both get along. I would tell you not to lose hope but you'd have to be able to get through your mom's stubbornness about why this guy is so bad. By the way I know nothing about Stears so I'm just assuming she's being a typical controlling Eastern European mom.

Thank God my mother is normal.
Never interfered in my sister's marriage, and will not in mine when I get married.

[tropicalslavic]

As long as Feiichy and Insuperable draw breath, this thread is bound to withstand the heat death of the universe.

Nobody is better at fighting than balkan people

[SilverKnight]

Well, I obviously wouldn't mind having multiple women. No sane man would. But if I start with one woman and I love her I wouldn't want to hurt her feelings since I love her and since I doubt any sane woman wouldn't mind me fucking another woman/wife. Anyway, polygyny doesn't fit my culture.

what if your wife asks you to add one or two more ladies into the marriage? Like "Hey I believe in polygyny, and I wouldn't mind".. What would you do in that case?

A girl I know was always a huge churchgoer. No doubt she never slept around even if perhaps she had a serious boyfriend at some point, although I doubt that even. She got married in her 20's, to another serious churchgoer. They were really, really in love, and I think they were both wonderful people. She immediately got pregnant after the wedding, as one does. Like five months after their wedding, the husband suffers a massive stroke despite being young, healthy, working out, etc. Doctors say it was probably genetic causes and/or random. Less than a year from their wedding she has a baby, and her husband dies after being comatose for like 6 months.

Now she's a single mom. Although she is very heartbroken and depressed and I guess probably of the same mentality as me, where I don't think I could ever date as a widow until my children were at least teenagers if not adults, since I don't think it's respectful to the kids to bring new men around when they are still small, plus I think dating as a widow is weird since you are supposed to be grieving. But nonetheless, I don't think she should be painted with the same brush as hoodrat thotticus Shaquondria with 5 baby daddies. It's stories like this that I don't believe are ridiculously common, but they are common enough, along with stories of women being battered, manipulated, lied to, abandoned, or widowed, that make me think it's a bad idea to paint all single mothers with the same brush. There are a million variables here.
I tend to stay away from broad generalizations of any group of people.

Now this scenario, I don't mind, it's not her fault that the hubby die, especially so young and unexpectedly. Even the Bible supports adding a widow to your family if you would like so.

My issue is with the ghetto irresponsible baby momma's and the chicks with daddy issues that drop their husbands on the spot once they feel like they want a a "new" adventure being single or with another man.

[Grace O'Malley]

But I don't want to end up being single /alone despite both of my parents are living Is like If they are death.

I can't count on them on anything and already had two terrible experiences with man. I rather have a wife who can take care of me.

If you are gay Laredo you won't be happy with marrying a woman. Also it's not fair to the woman.

[Victor]

If you are gay Laredo you won't be happy with marrying a woman. Also it's not fair to the woman.

I think it's better for a gay who consciously does not want to be one to choose a path of celibate, not switching to women just for going "in spite".

[Grace O'Malley]

My controlling mother poisoned my relationship with Stears a great deal. I wouldn't repeat same mistake twice.
I agree with Victor. Except that on family property one child should stay, so it stays in the family for generations to come.

I'm planning to move to central Croatia (not Zagreb) next year. I live here alone, but parents are close and my mother would try to drive Stears away, I know it. She hates him.

I wish you and Stears the very best. Possibly a bit of a break and a little bit older will have helped you both. There are many ups and downs in relationships but if you both really love each other you can work it out.