Single Mother (Reality Check)

[SilverKnight]

I don't have any kids

Well... You should one day, especially considering how the white population is dying off in most western countries

but regardless single moms should not be mocked liked this.

Lmao, silly ....no one is mocking them for being single with kids, the ones being mocked are the dudes that simp for single mothers and go out of their way to maintain another man's seed .. Now of course (like I said here a billion times already), there are exceptions here and there, but they're not the norm in the majority of cases.

[CosmoLady]

There is no point of living in US if you have any ambition to preserve your ethnic identity for the future.

The Amish might argue otherwise for starters.

North American and South American countries, Russia, and other countries with plenty of territory,
can all be excellent places for ethno-religious expatriate tribes such as Mennonites,
or possibly more modern Reichsburger-type groups (for the lifestyle not the monarchism),
to colonise, accumulate and improve property, and create multi-generational ethno-religious enclaves.

Usually a strong religious and ideological identity is necessary to keep this group together,
and to keep fertility rates high indefinitely.

Mennonites and Orthodox Jews are on every continent, and have very high fertility rates,
around 6.8 like the Amish who are very unusual because they choose to remain in the 19th century.

Amazingly Orthodox Jews are taking over many prime urban areas in the US, they are a minority of New York Jews,
but they are already 60% of Jewish schoolchildren,
because of their high fertility rate and liberal Jews' extremely low fertility rate.

Orthodox Jews are a very conservative PARALLEL SOCIETY,
they stay within their group for marriage and procreation,
they have their own schools, businesses, real estate, employment networks, social networks.

They successfully INSULATE themselves from the dysfunction of the urban liberal society around them,
even when they live in the gayest and most liberal areas of any given city (as is often the case),
and they are heavily involved in REAL ESTATE, which is necessary for their large families.

The best of all is to stay in one's own ethnically homogenous country, but not everyone has this luxury sadly.

[contestanic]

Virgin "don't play another's man game" VS 20yo chad friend of mine "I want a mature woman good at cooking lentils and with grown kids, I don't wanna change diapers"

[tropicalslavic]

Virgin "don't play another's man game" VS 20yo chad friend of mine "I want a mature woman good at cooking lentils and with grown kids, I don't wanna change diapers"

Honestly I've seen this dynamic work out a few times too. Babies are incredibly ridiculously difficult to take care of, between the lack of sleep, constant supervision, etc. and I have several friends who don't want kids because of that part. But if they date someone whose kids are at an age where they are not tiny little suicide machines that need to constantly be kept out of trouble, they're fine with this.

To each his own, of course.

[SilverKnight]

Honestly I've seen this dynamic work out a few times too. Babies are incredibly ridiculously difficult to take care of, between the lack of sleep, constant supervision, etc. and I have several friends who don't want kids because of that part. But if they date someone whose kids are at an age where they are not tiny little suicide machines that need to constantly be kept out of trouble, they're fine with this.

To each his own, of course.

Funny, because me and the wife see our two boys as a fun adventure, despite how wild they get at times, we've learned to understand them.. Selfishness and lack of understanding is the issue. All of us were once kids, so we can be on another kid's shoes for a couple years (it aint gonna kill anyone).

My younger one is 8 months, and he's sleeping like a charm now, and most likely won't wake up for another 2 hours (unless he gets hungry).

[tropicalslavic]

Funny, because me and the wife see our two boys as a fun adventure, despite how wild they get at times, we've learned to understand them.. Selfishness and lack of understanding is the issue. All of us were once kids, so we can be on another kid's shoes for a couple years (it aint gonna kill anyone).

My younger one is 8 months, and he's sleeping like a charm now, and most likely won't wake up for another 2 hours (unless he gets hungry).

I see kids as a fun adventure too. But I also see them as people who need a lot of guidance and protection. Especially toddlers, and especially particularly energetic ones. I feel like some days I spend all day trying to keep a toddler from hurting themselves on accident. Plus when we started having kids we had zero family support or anything, and my husband had to immediately go back to work, so it was me on no sleep terrified of doing something wrong.

Both things can be true. Having kids is wonderful but also difficult. Most good things in life don't come easy.

[Incal]

OP even wrote a song about it:

[SilverKnight]

I see kids as a fun adventure too. But I also see them as people who need a lot of guidance and protection. Especially toddlers, and especially particularly energetic ones. I feel like some days I spend all day trying to keep a toddler from hurting themselves on accident. Plus when we started having kids we had zero family support or anything, and my husband had to immediately go back to work, so it was me on no sleep terrified of doing something wrong.

Both things can be true. Having kids is wonderful but also difficult. Most good things in life don't come easy.

Just imagine having to take care of another person's kid :0

OP even wrote a song about it:

huh? whats that

[lei.talk]