Single Mother (Reality Check)

[SilverKnight]

Lmao.

[Tooting Carmen]

[Petalpusher]

"Never play another's man saved game"

Savages.

[Victor]

Both gender sides obsessed with this and similar topics are extremely insecure. I find "gender patriotism", all these feminists, macho-ists to be mentally unhealthy. Imagine thinking about all this, discussing it, having emotions about it like something important.

[tropicalslavic]

Both gender sides obsessed with this and similar topics are insecure retards. I find "gender patriotism", all these feminists, macho-ists to be mentally unhealthy. Imagine thinking about all this, discussing it, having emotions about it like something important.

Right. Most normal people fall somewhere in the middle. I'm not a huge fan of gross generalizations. I've seen single mothers from all walks of life, including ones who were really good mothers and good wives until something bad happened, and I've also met trashbags who can't keep their legs closed or choose a good man to save their lives. And honestly usually the men obsessed with this topic are just hysterical, like no one is forcing you to date single moms, just ignore them? I don't make thread after thread about hoodrat black guys flirting with me in public because I just like... ignore them or tell them no, like a normal person? Lol. Gender patriots are socially maladjusted weirdos.

[Nurzat]

Both gender sides obsessed with this and similar topics are insecure retards. I find "gender patriotism", all these feminists, macho-ists to be mentally unhealthy. Imagine thinking about all this, discussing it, having emotions about it like something important.

true, I am fond of incels as I am fond of wokists.

both are victim subcultures, though wokes are much more mainstream and officially approved politically and socially in the West, and much more vocal and visible, for which they are much more annoying

[tropicalslavic]

true, I am fond of incels as I am fond of wokists.

both are victim subcultures, though wokes are much more mainstream and officially approved politically and socially in the West, and much more vocal and visible, for which they are much more annoying

I always thought that the red pill incels and ultra radical feminists deserved each other. They have a lot in common. Most people can't stand their whining.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

Why would I raise another man's child/children? What incentive is there?

[tropicalslavic]

Why would I raise another man's child/children? What incentive is there?

...is anyone forcing you to do that? When I was single occasionally single dads would take interest in me. I never felt oppressed by it, nor did I feel a need to explain to them or anyone why I just wasn't interested. I just said no and moved on, never really thinking about it after the fact.

Some men marry single mothers because they're single fathers, so it works well, or the woman is perhaps a widow or otherwise a good person who something bad happened to. Sometimes men marry them because they're idiots and getting played by an evil woman, I know of a case like this IRL. It all depends. But fortunately, no one is forced to marry anyone in the Western world!

[Nurzat]

the girl in the OP is very good-looking, clearly well above average.

in Romanian there's a saying saying this, approximately: "you better eat dessert together with more people than eat polenta (mamaliga) alone", referring to one's wife, meaning that you better have a beautiful/attractive wife that you share with others (unknowingly or you pretend you don't observe or don't stress over it) than have a less attractive wife to enjoy alone.

maybe a cultural reason behind that, since in Romania many people are sons/daughters of another man than their legal father, most of them unknowingly probably