Single Mother (Reality Check)

[Insuperable]

Good luck finding a woman who literally wants to be your property.

That's a nice cope for being a slut.

[Insuperable]

At least he’s not a hypocrite then. Cause if he ever considers divorce he would be “low level” himself. And expecting a virgin as a divorced man with a kid wouldn’t be really an attractive trait on the dating market.

Yes like 80% of women today.

[Insuperable]

This sounds like Croatian reality too. Very sad. I respect your mature attitude and willingness to help your wife. I know you care nothing for feminism lol.

Yeah, but no. Based on Croatian forums it's mostly males who complain that wives are not putting as they used to. And women who complain are usually those whose husbands work their ass off to provide for a family.

[Katarzyna]

That's a nice cope for being a slut.

Thanks, your opinion really matters to me

[Insuperable]

most fathers around us are absent - my wife tells me in private, as she speaks to the wives of my friends, you know how groups separate into men, women and kids when friends with kids gather. it's a delicate subject which I never took up with my friends, though my wife asked me to, I don't know if it's appropriate for me to stick my nose into their domestic business, I will most probably continue not to mention it with them. from what their wives tell my wife, they tend to price their own time a lot (they go out alone or with friends, they come later from work staying in the city without something real to do, they procrastinate at home with their hobbies etc) and don't mind leaving their wives to cook, clean and take care of the kids (bring them to and from kindergarten etc) in a disproportionate amount compared to their own help with these. in my house we try and split everything and in some periods one or the other is doing more as his work schedule allows it, but we split housework and kids activities the best we can. and we are no feminists, so nothing ideological behind that. then we do have a couple of examples where they split house work as well, but most aren't and I understand it's common to say to the wife "and what will you do, divorce? who's gonna take you with kids?" we even know of a case where they didn't have sex in 2 or 3 years now, him not wanting to, otherwise normal couple with normal jobs

Of course, wives told so, so it must be so. Remember, everyone can look at the same thing with a different perspective. Women are highly demanding and they usually want everything. Like a guy who provides, but enough time for her. And this 'enough' is what is relative to most people.

2 or 3 years without sex? He must be banging something on sideways or has some loose screws.

[Nurzat]

2 or 3 years without sex? He must be banging something on sideways or has some loose screws.

just a quick search found me this (2 in 3 couples in Japan and 1 in 7 couples in the US):

‘Trend won’t stop’: Japan poll finds 2 in 3 couples have little to no sex

As many as one in seven married adults in the United States are in relationships with little to no sex.

[Anglo-Celtic]

I dated a single mother once. She kicked me to the curb because I said that we don't have to date each other exclusively (she likely would've married me after just a few dates).

[Immanenz]

Well, she will find a guy for sure who will put up with her bull shit- and her kid. I mean how many women with shit personalities have guys as well? a lot, right So, its easy for a relativly attractive women to got one guy, not necessary maybe her alpha psychopat that she wants but thats the game.

Personally i would just fuck a single mother, but not date her for real. I mean she must be really good in almost everything that i would date her.

[tropicalslavic]

Good luck finding a woman who literally wants to be your property.

I never understood why these men thought they were such a prize. There exists no man on earth who I would degrade myself like that for.

[Insuperable]

I never understood why these men thought they were such a prize. There exists no man on earth who I would degrade myself like that for.

The same way there exists no overused woman or woman carrying all kinds of baggage on Earth who I would degrade myself like that for.