Why do a majority of females find me repulsive?

**Richmondbread** · 04-13-2024, 10:41 PM

Okay, so I am not in the best physical shape yet, but I wonder if I get lean and healthy if females will still be repulsed by me. I know there is a member on here who clearly said this and others have too. I feel like I will never get to be with a female and be a father. This is sad. I am already past my prime, and even if I do get a better job and improve myself, no woman will want to marry a loser like me, nor bear my children . No woman will want to be in my presence. I am sure that most females would rather have sex with a dog than with me. I am not worthy of anyone's love or respect . I just wish it didn't have to hit so hard.

**jakob** · 04-13-2024, 10:44 PM

In what context are they repulsed? Passively, or when you're actively making advances? If it is the former, you must have a severe hygiene problem or abnormal demeanor. I have seen your appearance, and you are fat, but not visually offensive. Your face looks normal, you have clear skin, you don't look "gross" or repulsive visually.

**~Elizabeth~** · 04-13-2024, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

Okay, so I am not in the best physical shape yet, but I wonder if I get lean and healthy if females will still be repulsed by me. I know there is a member on here who clearly said this and others have too. I feel like I will never get to be with a female and be a father. This is sad. I am already past my prime, and even if I do get a better job and improve myself, no woman will want to marry a loser like me, nor bear my children . No woman will want to be in my presence. I am sure that most females would rather have sex with a dog than with me. I am not worthy of anyone's love or respect . I just wish it didn't have to hit so hard.

OMG. Don't be so down on yourself. I think you are a good looking man. You remind me of a former boyfriend from when I was 20, except he had light brown hair. We never had sex though. And I left him for my first boyfriend who came back into the picture. Maybe you need to be more assertive with women. Maybe you need to see a doctor and get a prescription for your depression. Maybe you have a hormone imbalance? You probably need more testosterone or something. I'm not a doctor, I'm just guessing.

**Richmondbread** · 04-13-2024, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by jakob

In what context are they repulsed? Passively, or when you're actively making advances? If it is the former, you must have a severe hygiene problem or abnormal demeanor. I have seen your appearance, and you are fat, but not visually offensive. Your face looks normal, you have clear skin, you don't look "gross" or repulsive visually.

I have refined facial features.

**jakob** · 04-13-2024, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by Richmondbread

I have refined facial features.

? In either case, in what context are women repulsed? and are they actually repulsed, or are you falsely inferring this reaction due to a lack of confidence?

**Richmondbread** · 04-13-2024, 11:25 PM

Originally Posted by jakob

? In either case, in what context are women repulsed? and are they actually repulsed, or are you falsely inferring this reaction due to a lack of confidence?

i don't know tbh.

**tropicalslavic** · 04-13-2024, 11:29 PM

I think your poor luck in this is probably due to the autism. Not trying to insult you, it just is what it is.

**Richmondbread** · 04-13-2024, 11:35 PM

Originally Posted by tropicalslavic

I think your poor luck in this is probably due to the autism. Not trying to insult you, it just is what it is.

Yes I think so. I am somewhat mildly attractive.

**Annie999** · 04-13-2024, 11:37 PM

Physically you're not repulsive at all. You have an average face and a body that some might find still attractive. It's your own mind and autism that play tricks on you. Also, your personality is very particular and not easy going. I don't know how to help you honestly since you've been focused on the same stuff since I've known you and ignore every advice people say.

**Richmondbread** · 04-13-2024, 11:37 PM

Originally Posted by Annie999

Physically you're not repulsive at all. You have an average face and a body that some might find still attractive. It's your own mind and autism that play tricks on you. Also, your personality is very particular and not easy going. I don't know how to help you honestly since you've been focused on the same stuff since I've known you and ignore every advice people say.

Why do you say average and what does this mean? You mean I can't be handsome? ever?