It's In The Genes

[Anglo-Celtic]

How many female members would be really turned on if their male SO was a lot larger, taller, smarter, and/or stronger than they are, and how many female members would be really turned off if their male SO was a lot smaller, shorter, dumber, and/or weaker than they are? That's almost a moot question because that latter part would almost never happen. I bet that the male members are just the reverse in their preferences and tastes, and I bet that they would value appearances more. No amount of Fourth Wave feminism can change this evolutionary hardwiring in the vast majority of people of both sexes (not even in commie chicks, with blue hair, who date soy boys with thin arms).

[CosmoLady]

How many female members would be really turned on if their male SO was a lot larger, taller, smarter, and/or stronger than they are, and how many female members would be really turned off if their male SO was a lot smaller, shorter, dumber, and/or weaker than they are? That's almost a moot question because that latter part would almost never happen. I bet that the male members are just the reverse in their preferences and tastes, and I bet that they would value appearances more. No amount of Fourth Wave feminism can change this evolutionary hardwiring in the vast majority of people of both sexes (not even in commie chicks, with blue hair, who date soy boys with thin arms).

Hmm, I think that if the differences are not extreme,
guys can be turned on by taller girls, and girls can be turned on by shorter slimmer guys.

I think that midgets, super-muscular guys, tall super-muscular women, etc. are getting into fetish territory,
appealing to only a small % of the population.

[calxpal]

Sort of unrelated but I can't wait for the day that people can alter their own genetics! I would alter my own appearance related genes lol, but would dates be able to tell? XD lol

[CosmoLady]

Sort of unrelated but I can't wait for the day that people can alter their own genetics! I would alter my own appearance related genes lol, but would dates be able to tell? XD lol

That will be a big industry!
But gene therapy will mostly affect your internal health, I don't think that it will change your physical features/basic appearance.

[Marmara]

I don't understand what this is about, i don't think feminists are trying to change this.

They do hate muscular men and sight of masculinity overall but it's very evident that their preference in men represents only a tiny fraction of all women.

I don't think feminists can lead healthy monogamous relationships so their preferences shouldn't matter to anyone.

[Anglo-Celtic]

Hmm, I think that if the differences are not extreme,
guys can be turned on by taller girls, and girls can be turned on by shorter slimmer guys.

I think that midgets, super-muscular guys, tall super-muscular women, etc. are getting into fetish territory,
appealing to only a small % of the population.

Are you sure about shorter and slimmer guys? We saw a couple like that at Kings Island, and people looked at them like they were circus freaks. The girl was huge, though. Her SO sat between her legs on the log ride.

Would you date a guy like the one in the OP? I'll go out on a limb, and I'll say that it'll likely be a hard "no". You see a ton of older men and younger women like that, though (should have added age differences, as well as income differences). You never see a rich cougar with a guy like that (outside of weird fetish stories).

[Anglo-Celtic]

Sort of unrelated but I can't wait for the day that people can alter their own genetics! I would alter my own appearance related genes lol, but would dates be able to tell? XD lol

It might be a long wait. I'm still waiting for flying cars.

[Anglo-Celtic]

I don't understand what this is about, i don't think feminists are trying to change this.

They do hate muscular men and sight of masculinity overall but it's very evident that their preference in men represents only a tiny fraction of all women.

I don't think feminists can lead healthy monogamous relationships so their preferences shouldn't matter to anyone.

I don't see what's so hard to understand. I'm saying that traditional gender roles are ingrained in both men and women, even if people don't admit it, which is why most women prefer bigger and stronger men, no matter how liberated they claim to be.

[Marmara]

I don't see what's so hard to understand. I'm saying that traditional gender roles are ingrained in both men and women, even if people don't admit it, which is why most women prefer bigger and stronger men, no matter how liberated they claim to be.

Physical attraction is one thing i can get, men are naturally bigger/stronger already. What i don't understand with women is how they think they have the right to ask for a wealthier man and how they want to be taken care of and paid for dates. They get the same education, work like us and make the same money as us, why do they still expect us to be providers? Why can't men get spoiled for once?

If they want to be taken care of, then they shouldn't compete with men in job market.

[CosmoLady]

Are you sure about shorter and slimmer guys? We saw a couple like that at Kings Island, and people looked at them like they were circus freaks. The girl was huge, though. Her SO sat between her legs on the log ride.

Would you date a guy like the one in the OP? I'll go out on a limb, and I'll say that it'll likely be a hard "no". You see a ton of older men and younger women like that, though (should have added age differences, as well as income differences). You never see a rich cougar with a guy like that (outside of weird fetish stories).

Yes, I agree, women tend to prefer taller and stronger men.
They also want someone confident, assertive and healthy, with the right immune system factors, which are detected by smell.
Yes, women can smell who is right for them biologically (personality is another matter).

A girl can be attracted to a guy who is slightly shorter (not MUCH shorter),
I have seen this as well several times, but this is less common.

If there is a big difference, then it might be love, or it might be a weird fetish or some ulterior motive.

Men want someone slightly shorter I think, who is at most equal to their height when wearing heels!