♥ SR's Lounge- Tips and Ideas for Dating (for boys and gals!) ♥

[Mopi Licinius Crassus]

Silverknight Bruv...what have you learnt about women and dating in the 10 years since you made this thread

Would you still give the same advice now ?

[Ylla]

One piece of advice I would give is to be yourself (within reason, of course). I say this because it leads to other positive characteristics being shown (your true personality, confidence and charm). It doesn't matter if for eg, you say something strange, that's the human side to us, if she can't handle that then do you really forsee a serious future with that person? Somebody who doesn't like your quirks and gets the ick very quickly. Imo that's a red flag and that person is not for you.

[Celestia]

One piece of advice I would give is to be yourself (within reason, of course). I say this because it leads to other positive characteristics being shown (your true personality, confidence and charm). It doesn't matter if for eg, you say something strange, that's the human side to us, if she can't handle that then do you really forsee a serious future with that person? Somebody who doesn't like your quirks and gets the ick very quickly. Imo that's a red flag and that person is not for you.

I agree 100%
Don’t be afraid to talk about your actual interests. It’s pretty cute when a guy gets really nerdy into a subject they like. Plus it’s nice to see your genuine side.

[SocialPhobiak]

Girls want a real man.
they want to be protected, to feel that you are a strong person.
never complain about anything.
Show them that you can handle any problem.
and if you can be a macho tough guy if you beat her up it will drive that woman crazy..(every now and then you have to slap her and show who's the master.)
You have to be as firm as possible on the bed.

In short, girls love real warrior men.
but if you are not physically attractive, whatever you do is useless.
I'm talking about a masculine attraction. You must have a big gun,(If you do not have these feature, you will be cheated.) a hairy masculine body. etc.

Women always want better men and compare the man they have to other men.

You must be the most manly thing that ever happened to her.

[Rædwald]

For gentleman & the ladies.

Be yourself, don't try to give an impression of what you think the other person wants. Otherwise, what inevitably happens down the road is that you slip back into your true self, and your partner is not going to know who that person is. Naturally, conflict is going to arise.

Be honest, don't hide your feelings on anything. If someone does something that doesn't sit right with you, tell them. Otherwise, there is a human tendency for resentment to build over time, these things will stack, and you will act against the interest of your partner and the relationship inevitably, and quite likely subconsciously.

If they don't want or like you for who you are sorry, disregard them. There are more people in the world. There is no person who is worth sacrificing your personal sovereignty for. This will stop people from wasting your time if someone is clearly not invested in you then leave.

If you choose to ignore that, your relationship will fail. If it doesn't it will only be because you've sacrificed yourself to it.

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

Start the conversation with the following, "We can do this the easy way or the hard way. It's up to you."

[frankhammer]

Great advice thanks.

Whenever I see "bubbles" today, I just wan't to pop them.

[Hexachordia]

I am not a popular guy so no much advices for dating, but coping with failures. I never get the girls that I had first-signt crashes with, probably fate or something. But had once developed good mutuality after let-try relationship. I just want to say, it is OK not to win the girl you feel so good about who you just can not resist for no apparent reasons, boys usually once or twice experience this situation in life. If she does not respond to you, just cope with it however painful you feel. Go outdoor, make some common friends, develop some skills or techniques, then after years you will be grateful that she did not respond to you. So this is for girls, but bad boys respond to most girls though, if this happens, why don`t hide your feeling and let slip, if they know they would persecute after you unless they have unknown sides. If to chase a nerd like me(probably the only sort of men that would be a question for girls), girls must show optimistic character, especially combined with surprising skills in cooking or sports and other life knowledges, but do not try to force your bright sides unto them.

[Tongio]

For boys, first date call her to somewhere cheap or free, like a park, so u 2 can talk.

[SilverKnight]

One piece of advice I would give is to be yourself (within reason, of course). I say this because it leads to other positive characteristics being shown (your true personality, confidence and charm). It doesn't matter if for eg, you say something strange, that's the human side to us, if she can't handle that then do you really forsee a serious future with that person? Somebody who doesn't like your quirks and gets the ick very quickly. Imo that's a red flag and that person is not for you.

Silverknight Bruv...what have you learnt about women and dating in the 10 years since you made this thread

Would you still give the same advice now ?

Basically what Ylla said above sums it all up \ answers your question. I had to learn that the HARD way.