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    Quote Originally Posted by Strawberry View Post
    In my mind a real gentlemen would pay,especially on the first few dates.
    But after you get in a relationship, you should deffintley split the costs?
    Basically this. The guy should pay the first few times and later this would happen only occasionally, with each of the two paying for himself/herself (if you don't live together) or the expenses being split (more common if you share your home) most of the time.

    I had one weird case with the woman paying my bill many years ago though.
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    On all dates, I usually paid.
    I may be a little mistaken, but in almost the entire territory of the former Soviet Union it is customary for a guy to pay, come up to get acquainted, and so on. Unfortunately.

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    on the first date or two i think the guy should pay. if you’re in a relationship then you can split it up, like each pays every other date or sth like that

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    First date is always going dutch. In today's world of "equality" and "not needing no man" many women rightfully take pride in paying for their own meal.

    There are also a lot of women who do use dating apps to get a free meal, and any other non-sexual gifts.

    Going Dutch weeds out the girls who are just looking for a foodie call and its a great shit test to give women. If she's not cool with going dutch first time around then she's got unreasonable expectations.

    If the the woman takes issue with it on the first date then it's a red flag that lets you know you shouldn't waste any more of your time on trying to develop a relationship with her, so there isn't really a downside to suggesting it.

    Only pay for the entirety of it to avoid potential conflict if you're just trying to fuck, which should honestly be a red flag to the woman if she is looking for more.

    Second date should be more romantic/formal and you pay. First dates should almost always be in the daytime, second dates should be at night.
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    I split the bill with my girlfriend usually, but if its a special occasion like her birthday or whatever I'll foot the bill.

    We have known each other for years though, so I suppose its different with someone who you barely know and it is your first date or whatever. I was not in too many other relationships prior to my current one (aside from just shallow one night stand bullshit at parties or whatever) and was also too young/broke for this to be too much of an issue back then, so....

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    Usually went dutch. My dates with Abo, he paid, though I think he took his payment in the form of taking pics of my pot belly and double chin while I was eating lol.

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    I always try to pay everthing except if she says she wants to pay something or "this time"

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    What kind of an earner and husband will this cheapskate be, thinks the girl.

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    In relationships it should be half and half.

    When I was single, I would offer to pay on the first couple dates but if the guy let me that would've been a red flag
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