I need advice on online dating....

[Germanicus]

So...out of frustration for being 28 and never having been in a relationship (and because my 25 year old brother is getting engaged next month)....I made an online profile the other day.....

A lot of the guys that messaged me were "creepy"....but I looked at this one guys profile...and he seemed attractive (personality and look-wise)....he messaged me...and we went back and forth....and then he suggested we go out for dinner....(we were both looking for something long term). I agreed....

But then I asked other people what they thought of meeting someone online....and they thought it was creepy....

The guy is 31...he is into health, like me....he is starting nursing school (I didn't tell him i'm in med school...cause guys seem to get turned off by this)....

And so...I kept thinking of what other people were telling me about online dating...and the fact that if my parents found out they would be very, very, angry with me...so I told him it's off...

And then he messaged me back saying he really wants to meet me...and that he's understanding...and hopes I change my mind....

Sometimes I feel so indecisive....and again...I have NO relationship experience...

So...should I just keep the "date" canceled, or give him a try?

Thanks for your help.

Ok... being a 28 year old female you are on a time limit here; do not date losers who waste your time.. they MUST be white, home owner, no children, and have a steady job.....no baggage.

[Mordid]

WTF ??
Please stop deralling maddy her Threads with useless Content.
Thanks in advance.

U jelly because she's with me?

[Maddy]

Ok... being a 28 year old female you are on a time limit here; do not date losers who waste your time.. they MUST be white, home owner, no children, and have a steady job.....no baggage.

Yeah...the problem is, in real life...no white men talk to me unless I do first...and I've tried...but they don't seem interested. Black men, however, do come up to me and talk....and make catcalls at me when I walk by, or are in my car, etc....I just assumed that white men are not attracted to me (I have sort of a big butt, but I work out religiously...so that may be why)

[Maddy]

PM sent.

Hey...I didn't get a PM from you....

[Supreme American]

So why are you allowing other people to tell you what to do? Lots of people do online dating now. Big deal.

[Supreme American]

Yeah...the problem is, in real life...no white men talk to me unless I do first...and I've tried...but they don't seem interested. Black men, however, do come up to me and talk....and make catcalls at me when I walk by, or are in my car, etc....I just assumed that white men are not attracted to me (I have sort of a big butt, but I work out religiously...so that may be why)

Blacks are more aggressive, more forward, and lack manners.

[Melina]

So...out of frustration for being 28 and never having been in a relationship (and because my 25 year old brother is getting engaged next month)....I made an online profile the other day.....

A lot of the guys that messaged me were "creepy"....but I looked at this one guys profile...and he seemed attractive (personality and look-wise)....he messaged me...and we went back and forth....and then he suggested we go out for dinner....(we were both looking for something long term). I agreed....

But then I asked other people what they thought of meeting someone online....and they thought it was creepy....

The guy is 31...he is into health, like me....he is starting nursing school (I didn't tell him i'm in med school...cause guys seem to get turned off by this)....

And so...I kept thinking of what other people were telling me about online dating...and the fact that if my parents found out they would be very, very, angry with me...so I told him it's off...

And then he messaged me back saying he really wants to meet me...and that he's understanding...and hopes I change my mind....

Sometimes I feel so indecisive....and again...I have NO relationship experience...

So...should I just keep the "date" canceled, or give him a try?

Thanks for your help.

If I where you I would move to a more white area and meet people outside. I used to internet date but it never went anywhere. Just be careful. Good luck in finding Mr. right up

[Mordid]

Hey...I didn't get a PM from you....

I am a bit busy at the moment. I will send you a PM from me.

[Arne]

I am a bit busy at the moment. I will send you a PM from me.

My Advice...

Maddy don´t trust Mordid.
He´s not pure.

[Europa]

I personally won't do it.