Would you consider a Man who's in their 20s and a Virgin pathetic?

**sean** · 05-09-2021, 11:32 AM

Pretty much yes. If a man is a virgin over the age of 25 he has pretty much failed carrying out the basic instinctual imperative and has demonstrated antisocial behaviour.

However, marrying and having kids and losing virginity are two very separate things. Nothing wrong with preserving your virginity for religious reasons, be they for the purpose of marital fidelity or monastic celibacy. What makes a man are qualities of honour and virtue, not whether or not he's gotten his dick wet.

Monogamy was a system that was developed so women would pair up with roughly their equal in attractiveness/status. This contributed to better raised children and more men investing in society.

But male purity shouldn't be held to anywhere near the same standard as female purity. If anything, men having more partners displays their viability as a potential mate.

Alexandro · 05-15-2021, 03:44 PM

Nah, being a "loser" is not really necessarily determined by having or not having sex....and its okay to take your time and wait for the right person. Man, personally I lost my virginity to a fucking batshit insane Portuguese girl that I'm not even on speaking terms with anymore, so would have preferred to have waited in hindsight.

However, might add that not everyone who is a virgin at 26 is a loser, but most losers at 26 are virgins.

**Harley** · 05-21-2021, 07:32 PM

I think that if you have your own reason for being a virgin, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Sex is a choice, and you don’t have to put out just because someone says you should.

**Richmondbread** · 05-22-2021, 11:14 PM

Originally Posted by sean

Pretty much yes. If a man is a virgin over the age of 25 he has pretty much failed carrying out the basic instinctual imperative and has demonstrated antisocial behaviour.

However, marrying and having kids and losing virginity are two very separate things. Nothing wrong with preserving your virginity for religious reasons, be they for the purpose of marital fidelity or monastic celibacy. What makes a man are qualities of honour and virtue, not whether or not he's gotten his dick wet.

Monogamy was a system that was developed so women would pair up with roughly their equal in attractiveness/status. This contributed to better raised children and more men investing in society.

But male purity shouldn't be held to anywhere near the same standard as female purity. If anything, men having more partners displays their viability as a potential mate.

No monogamy was Gods idea. Sex outside of marriage is called fornication

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**Anglo-Celtic** · 05-23-2021, 12:12 AM

I'll keep it real. I don't care if you're a virgin, and I don't care if you're a player. It makes no difference to me and my life. It's way down on my "give a da" list.