Would you consider a Man who's in their 20s and a Virgin pathetic?

[Insuperable]

I am a virgin, but its not like I have been running after women my whole life, and I tend to be asexual at times, although brief spurts of heterosexual feelings do arise.

Gays and asexuals. Lets preserve nations yeah

[GeistFaust]

Gays and asexuals. Lets preserve nations yeah

I probably will negate my virginity one of these days, but I don't feel like doing it now, because I have other things to take care of and be responsible.

I am not really technically an asexual, but I find I just tend to be ambitious in regards to certain subject matters, which makes me feel like sex is just a drain of energy.

When I find the time, stability, and feel like it then it will eventually occur at some point possibly, but in my past and for now I am content with things the way they are.

[Supreme American]

No. Dumb thread.

[rhiannon]

No.
My hubs was a late bloomer, for example. He never lost his until his 20s, and this is not because he was ugly and couldn't get girls.....it's because he was extremely shy around girls.

Plus, his college life was very different from most people's....he attended one of this country's esteemed Military Academies. Cadets never got much in the way of any time for a social life, lol

[StonyArabia]

I am a Virgin and certainly what is pathetic is people talking about how it's cool to be non-virgin, it's like the world turned upside down. Certainly a man who saves himself is doing himself and his partner a favor. Virgin till marriage this how it should be.

[Guapo]

yes

[Strawberry]

Yes

[Skandi]

Nope my best mates husband was a virgin at 28 when she met him, they are now married with a child, but his family are strict catholics, and he was being nice to his mother, would not be my choice but it was his.

[Ryujin]

As an asexual virgin (and who will probably die that way), I think (sexual) people need to experience it at a young age because societies in which sexuality is a taboo tend to be backward, with a soaring rate of rape cases. If I ever had a child I would like him or her to have sex in high school.

[Prisoner Of Ice]

I lost virginity as teenager, but most of the guys I know who lost it very young are subhumanoid decliners of some kind.

Most smart people seem to be 'late bloomers', even in the intellectual sense many times, let alone physically and sexually.