Slut Shaming; Your views?

[Breedingvariety]

If a 45 year old single woman dress skimpy seeking a fling, there is nothing wrong with that. She's single, she has needs too.

[2Cool]

It's not the amount of partners but the frequency.

5 over 10 years is nothing. 5 over 10 weeks is a red flag.

What about a guy?

[Kazimiera]

It's not the amount of partners but the frequency.

5 over 10 years is nothing. 5 over 10 weeks is a red flag.

How about 5 in an hour with her husband at a swinger's party?

[Óttar]

People talk about "double standards" but what they fail to realize is this: A key that can open any lock is a master key, but a lock that opens for any old key is a shitty lock. Now I think we should all be sluts, as humans are the most sexual animals on Earth, but women are the only ones who have the luxury of being sluts merely by choice, by a whim, not by struggle, indeed, by their very existence.

There are many men who wish they could have prolific sex lives, but ultimately it is women that determine EVERYTHING in the sexual/sensual realm. It is THEIR unique and undisputed TERRITORY.

In the sexual/sensual realm, a woman merely has to BE. A man on the other hand, must BECOME. The latter is infinitely harder, and it is WEALTH more than any other factor which determines a men's access to a prolific sex life, poor deadbeats who can swindle girls into taking care of them notwithstanding.

Ladies, stop complaining and realize that being female is a luxury and a gift...

[el22]

Well my view is that it's unfair to keep a double standard that allows men to sleep around but women must remain chaste and virginal or they will be scrutinized.. however I think sexual behavior is private and should not be so out in the open, from either gender.

I strongly disagree with this bullshit of double-standards that are persecuting woman.
Listen buddy, I have this little mental/hypothetical experiment for you:

Imagine a young, teenage maybe, boy, alone in his house.
He gets out in the balcony of his house, and yells: “Hey, females, I’m alone this night. Who want to pass the night here with me?”
How many females do you think he will get? Exactly!

Now, let’s make this boy a teenage girl, who again, gets out in her balcony and yells: “Hey, males, I’m alone tonight. Who wants to pass the night with me?”

You don’t need to have a particularly vivid imagination, to envision males climbing the walls of her house as scorpions.

So much for your single-standard ideals.

[Lumi]

The way a woman dresses is of no concern to anybody and she should not be treated wrongly.
I'm the kind of girl who rarely goes out. I always wear jeans, big boots, baggy t-shirts and hoodies. Always.
I went out with some friends one night. Wore a nice black dress that went down to my knees. It had one sleeve. Some guys walk past us and called me a slag. My reply? "Last time I checked, I wasn't a molten pile of metal oxide, so your observation is wrong".


I cannot STAND men who use the way a woman dresses as an excuse to degrade her. That's why I went to SlutWalk. To try and change the way society, the authorities AND the government view women who dress in a certain way, and to also change people's perception of rape survivors.

[Pallantides]

I will run after them with a can

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what they do is their own business not mine.

[Dacul]

Sluts are awsome.

[Frigga]

But how do you know if she does no harm to anyone? What if there are effects on her health and consequently on her offspring?

If you're an outsider to her, meaning not her immediate family, then it still shouldn't be anyone else's concern. Plus, those are the choices and/or mistakes that she is entitled to make as a human being. "Those of you without sin, cast the first stone."

[Linet]

I think that the line between sexy and slutty is thin ...the skirt in sexy is 2 fingers longer and the top of the blouse reveal 3 fingers less skin. A girl should know to tell the difference and not overdo it ...thats all....unless she really want the others to get the wrong idea :naughty2:.

Of course apart from dressing, behavior can do miracles . The difference is that when the wrong dressed girl try to speak, even in a nice manner, nobody will hear her being already prejudiced against her "morals" when in the second case, she will have a chance and of course is up to her to built or ruin her image.