What is the single most important thing that attracts a woman to a man

**~~mosaic potato~~** · 02-03-2018, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by CommonSense

Correct. Even plastic surgery won't help as much as people think. The only ones who can truly make great improvements to their appearance are obese people. You can't know your true face until that fat melts down for good.
Surprisingly when talking to some of my fellow peers about this, their reception was positive. They generally agreed that their physical appearance was the most defining thing in shaping their success or lack of success with the opposite sex. Seeing on the Internet how much the black pill makes people allergic I expected different results...but I guess you can't beat common sense.

It's the same with the single men I know. They all say looks is what's stopping them and I know they are 100% right. And they aren't going for "babes", just healthy weight average women who are their equal in looks. These men aren't ugly, fat slobs, they are just not "hot". The "hot" men that women have been brainwashed to go for since the dawn of hollywood films, media, sitcoms, soaps.... well most average men can never look like that.

The problem is that 20% of the male population (Handsome guys women want) cannot marry and date 80% of the women. Essentially the vast majority of women are going to be single, potentially with the teenage children of a 6'3" goodlooking Hunk, and alone in their 40's. Then once the majority of what women call "low tier" or "not good enough men" (which in reality is merely average/normal men that average/normal women dont want) check out?

Society is going to have to admit to this social problem and talk about this. Its already a big convo and political debate in places like Japan.

The natural nature of women is going to finally be out in the open; Hypergamous beings with insane standards.

I had a gf for 4 months many years ago now and all of the stuff being posted here is true. Thin/lean/fit average woman simply have too much hypergamy, attention, competition, egoism, narcissism. They also are far more likely to be unfaithful and talk to other guys. They all think they are 2 to 3 points higher than they are because of social media. Basically they think they are models thus they deserve model-looking men or very rich men. In reality they are average women who keep trim and have some basic job like most human beings. All of this is true.

**Seya** · 02-03-2018, 12:21 PM

attitude

**Karitomua** · 02-07-2018, 02:45 AM

Su forma de ser y aspiraciones que tiene.

Saludos

**~~Bobby Martnen~~** · 02-07-2018, 06:54 AM

Originally Posted by Stearsolina

His voice

Michael Bolton is #1 most attractive man by that standard

**Tom Cat** · 02-25-2018, 09:39 AM

Initially, I think appearance take precedence over all the other attributes.

Once socializing takes place between a man and woman who are attracted to each other, the other attributes begin to have importance; in no particular order.

Just beware of becoming seriously involved with someone who has a toxic personality, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which isn't always obvious at first. Believe me, they will literally destroy their partner, and simply move on to their next victim. I like to refer to these warped individuals as spiritual vampires.