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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS

    Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:

    1. The guy is gay
    2. The guy does not find you attractive
    3. The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder

    Even Nietzsche knew this. Most guys know this intuitively. Most girls doubt. I have a challenge for all of you girls who still doubt. Pick a guy who does not meet any of the criterion on the above list that you think is your friend. Then ask yourself this question: If you were both alone at his place one night, and you excused yourself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked him to have sex with you would he:

    1. Tell you he doesn't want to risk the beautiful friendship you have created with messy physical entanglements.

    2. Comply.

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    ...this only works if you are honest with yourself. Number one is of course something that guys hear all the time. Intellectual Whores refers to it as the Kiss of Death. It is more likely that he will jump you eagerly.
    You can if he respects you and u make it clear that ur not interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ** View Post
    You can if he respects you and u make it clear that ur not interested.
    I completely agree with this. Back when I was in middle school, a dirtbag found out who I liked and told her. She was willing to remain friends, but I fucked up the friendship (and most of my friendships, for that matter, I was a little shit back then) by acting like a complete jackass, and being an irritating little prick to pretty much everyone.

    Long story short: people who are attracted to each other can remain friends IF THEY ARE BOTH MATURE AND WILLING TO BE ADULTS

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    A friend is someone you can call Resident Fatso and he will laugh.
    Women will break down and have an existential crisis. (Which makes it funnier)
    I will never understand guys who try to chip away at the Shawshank of friendship, thinking they'll make it. I would never invest years of my life for a woman's "maybe". I don't negotiate with terrorists.

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    lol this was an interesting read and a lot of it is true.
    Back when I was dating I pretty much instantly knew if there would be sexual chemistry or not.
    I feel like a lot of men miss clear and obvious signs. If she asks for advice on another dude that should be a clear indicator she isn't interested in anything more.
    What’s done in darkness will come to light

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestia View Post
    lol this was an interesting read and a lot of it is true.
    Back when I was dating I pretty much instantly knew if there would be sexual chemistry or not.
    I feel like a lot of men miss clear and obvious signs. If she asks for advice on another dude that should be a clear indicator she isn't interested in anything more.
    Some do that to get information about what the guy they talk to likes. But womens' signalling is so broken.
    I think there's not one unambiguous sign that a woman is interested, all of them can be interpreted in either way.

    I hate it when guys grovel, makes me wanna go drive around in a car with a megaphone saying "SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU. SHE LIKES ME."

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    Quote Originally Posted by SneedsFeedNSeed View Post
    Some do that to get information about what the guy they talk to likes. But womens' signalling is so broken.
    I think there's not one unambiguous sign that a woman is interested, all of them can be interpreted in either way.

    I hate it when guys grovel, makes me wanna go drive around in a car with a megaphone saying "SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU. SHE LIKES ME."
    Yeah I suppose you’re right. I’m pretty straightforward with my wants and feelings, but there are women who test the waters and play games to find out info.
    What’s done in darkness will come to light

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    blasé ...jaded...blasé...indifferent

    I slept with so many women as an atheist (phase I went through) I don't care about them anymore.

    Here is an experiment : take a kind of liquor you enjoy and drink to the point of almost alcohol poisoning and throw up and dry heave for hours. Guess what ?! blasé ! You no longer probably like that liquor anymore.

    I feel like I have a mission in life and women are distractions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestia View Post
    lol this was an interesting read and a lot of it is true.
    Back when I was dating I pretty much instantly knew if there would be sexual chemistry or not.
    I feel like a lot of men miss clear and obvious signs. If she asks for advice on another dude that should be a clear indicator she isn't interested in anything more.
    Many of them don't miss the signs, but are unwilling to accept it... to their own detriment. Or they pretend not to notice, in the hope of changing your mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Celestia View Post
    lol this was an interesting read and a lot of it is true.
    Back when I was dating I pretty much instantly knew if there would be sexual chemistry or not.
    I feel like a lot of men miss clear and obvious signs. If she asks for advice on another dude that should be a clear indicator she isn't interested in anything more.
    I feel our chemistry is off the charts

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