Would you date someone who already had children?

**EagleAtHeart** · 02-21-2013, 05:31 AM

Dating a single mother is a bad idea... if she has one kid, she could very easily have another. Then you're stuck with an 18 year annuity (with variable payments)

**~~Caismeachd~~** · 02-21-2013, 05:34 AM

In some places the way it works. If you have a GF and you start financially supporting her child, she could actually go after you for child welfare payments and win even though it's not your kid. It's a really bad idea to get involved with single moms. Stay far away.

**EagleAtHeart** · 02-21-2013, 05:41 AM

Originally Posted by Robert

In some places the way it works. If you have a GF and you start financially supporting her child, she could actually go after you for child welfare payments and win even though it's not your kid. It's a really bad idea to get involved with single moms. Stay far away.

This is very true!! The courts consider you common-law and the child a dependent... especially if you live together.

**~~American_Hispanist~~** · 02-21-2013, 06:04 AM

Never...... Those women are damaged goods on such a grand scale...........

**The Alchemist** · 02-21-2013, 10:31 AM

He must be a really special person to convince me about such a diffucult decision.
I couldn't take care of his children in this moment of my life, but if he's really special for me, i could even do this.

**Queen B** · 02-21-2013, 10:36 AM

No, I wouldn't.

**RussiaPrussia** · 02-22-2013, 04:31 AM

i cant believe how heartless you all are,

ohh she must be wicked because she has children and no men. Lets keep him or her alone raising the child its not my business.

this is basically i am thinking about your talk if i read all this. Just because someone has child and is alone doesnt mean hes somehow careless. I cant believe your logic, for you it would be better if they wouldnt have children at all?? And then in other thread the same people argue how whites go instinct and so on by not making babies.

I wouldnt care if the women would have children, if the person is good looking and has a good heart. Its obviously on your part maybe to not spend on them and being their cashcow as it often happens but thats your own fault then.
I also kind of think its weird how women here in this forum are against single dads with children. If you actually think about it, its very rare if fathers have childrens and are alone, most of times its due the death of the mother not because of her leaving or divorce. So the dad is mostly a good man holding to his wife until his death. Meaning hes also a good father and is probably looking just for a good women not mother.

In general single dad households are more educated and more stable. Its only the single mom households with all kind of problems and criminality in it. I have never seen criminality or other kind of problems in single dad households.

**Mortimer** · 02-22-2013, 04:39 AM

I voted maybe I dont know. Im not really fond of the idea for a few reasons but if i really fall in love with the woman and she is really nice, I could maybe get over it.

**rhiannon** · 02-22-2013, 04:58 AM

Originally Posted by RussiaPrussia

i cant believe how heartless you all are,
this is basically i am thinking about your talk if i read all this. Just because someone has child and is alone doesnt mean hes somehow careless. I cant believe your logic, for you it would be better if they wouldnt have children at all?? And then in other thread the same people argue how whites go instinct and so on by not making babies.
I wouldnt care if the women would have children, if the person is good looking and has a good heart. Its obviously on your part maybe to not spend on them and being their cashcow as it often happens but thats your own fault then.
I also kind of think its weird how women here in this forum are against single dads with children. If you actually think about it, its very rare if fathers have childrens and are alone, most of times its due the death of the mother not because of her leaving or divorce. So the dad is mostly a good man holding to his wife until his death. Meaning hes also a good father and is probably looking just for a good women not mother.

**sigh**

Single parents need love too.

I wasn't looking for a sugar daddy when my husband and I started dating. Don't let the dirtbags muck it all up for the rest of us please...