Me venting after having my heart shattered to pieces...

[Germaniac]

Well, I'm opening this thread just to vent. I know I'll be called a pussy by some, I don't give a damn though...
Alas! My fianceé has dumped me...we grew apart I guess, and she dumped me after 2 years together. It happened last January, and since then I tried to get beck with her once, but she doesn't want me anymore. She wants to be single for a while, I guess. I am certain we won't get back together though, and I feel horrible about it...There was no fight, no nothing, just small grudges, together with her changing interests, so we didn't share as much in common. I also had become impatient with her, and she arrogant with me, we both brought this upon ourselves, but she gave tha last word... All plans, all dreams, shattered...

[Smaug]

I feel really sorry for you. I have already been through the same situation, but who hasn't right? This pain you feel will pass, it's hard to believe but it will.

[Grenzland]

Tut mir Leid das zu hören!

Ich hoffe dir geht es einigermaßen gut. Ich kann dir gut nachfühlen, aber das geht wieder vorbei. Vielleicht renkt sich auch alles wieder ein?

[Baluarte]

Best wishes :S
I really don't know what to say other than to take some time to breath and remember that as long as you're alive, something good may happen.

[derLowe]

Good thing too, imagine if this happened after marriage with 2 kids.

[Oneeye]

Fiancee huh? When were you two planning to be married?

[Virtuous]

Wish I could give you advice. I went through exactly the same thing and it's really...tormenting.

The best thing to do is to accept reality of the situation. Don't hold onto false hopes. In my honest opinion the fact that she was being cold and arrogant means that she wanted out of the relationship way before you thought. Girls are like that, they go through that process than suddenly you're cut off completely without explanation and a lot of "I don't know's" as excuses.

[Germaniac]

We were gonna be married after I came back from my mission. We are mormons...

[Smaug]

Wish I could give you advice. I went through exactly the same thing and it's really...tormenting.

The best thing to do is to accept reality of the situation. Don't hold onto false hopes. In my honest opinion the fact that she was being cold and arrogant means that she wanted out of the relationship way before you thought. Girls are like that, they go through that process than suddenly you're cut off completely without explanation and a lot of "I don't know's" as excuses.

Exactly, and they can be very harsh and rude when they do it, what hurts us even more.

[Virtuous]

GODDAMNIT, grammar mistake.

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