Adoption

**Prisoner Of Ice** · 10-07-2013, 06:18 PM

Only gheg highlander.

edit: dont worry j/k

Mazik · 10-07-2013, 06:23 PM

In the future when I've found a boyfriend it will be an option for me. But most of all I would like to find a surrogate.

**Moonbird** · 10-09-2013, 02:47 PM

Originally Posted by Fortis in Arduis

Would I?

If the child were a blood relation, and it was clearly my duty to adopt then I would feel duty-bound so to do, but otherwise, I would certainly not.

I agree with this. I would only adopt a blood relation to me or to my husband, anything else would be wrong to the child. Children aren't toys you can just buy for your own selfish reasons.

**Gorštak** · 10-09-2013, 02:52 PM

I think I will adopt child or two.
Too many of our kids were adoptet by for example Italians who have money(most Bosniaks don't have terms for adoptions), and they raise them as Italians and Catholics, they lose any link with their origins.
That must be stopped.

**Germaniac** · 10-09-2013, 02:57 PM

Although I am a strong supporter of adoption (by regular heterosexual families), I wouldn't adopt a child myself, save the case of an orphaned blood relative to me or my wife, the reason being that I judge myself to be incapable of feeling true complete fatherly love for someone who isn't my direct descendant. For those with a more loving heart than mine, I urge them to adopt, specially good couples that by fate are incapable of conceiving children. For the ones who can conceive and yet adopt, I think one obligation doesn't exclude the other, so they ought to have biological children as well, not only the ones they've adopted. Furthermore, even though it's not a racial discussion, I think people should adopt within their race, and if possible, ethnicity, because then it'll be easier for the child to bind with its adoptive parents.

**Gaston** · 10-10-2013, 10:59 AM

If I am rich enough and have already children of my own, yes. Of course, I would need to know the background of the child because I don't wanna get one from an inbred family, or from low IQ parents.
I don't think I could take a highly handicaped (physically) child, it would be too much stress for me. Maybe a small handicap would be OK, as long as it's a bright child mentally.

**Corvus** · 10-10-2013, 11:27 AM

Originally Posted by Germaniac

Although I am a strong supporter of adoption (by regular heterosexual families), I wouldn't adopt a child myself, save the case of an orphaned blood relative to me or my wife, the reason being that I judge myself to be incapable of feeling true complete fatherly love for someone who isn't my direct descendant. For those with a more loving heart than mine, I urge them to adopt, specially good couples that by fate are incapable of conceiving children. For the ones who can conceive and yet adopt, I think one obligation doesn't exclude the other, so they ought to have biological children as well, not only the ones they've adopted. Furthermore, even though it's not a racial discussion, I think people should adopt within their race, and if possible, ethnicity, because then it'll be easier for the child to bind with its adoptive parents.

For basically the same reasons I cannot imagine to adopt a child