Would you like children?

[The Alchemist]

Probably yes, in about 5 years.
But ONLY with a gorgeous man....well i know one who is the most gorgeous guy i've ever seen, but still it's too early, so maybe in 5 years if he accept to wait for me. Wonderful also as personality of course.

[Cail]

My husband and I are both people who have never wanted kids. I am very lucky (and so is he) to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want children. One person wanting children and the other not can turn into an ugly and resentful relationship.

Keep in mind that your husband will be able to have children even in his 60s. There's no pressure for him.

[Proctor]

We think the same on this issue and so we should totally get married. The only exception is that I actually like kids. I like to see the look on their faces when they learn something new and they're excited about it. Unfortunately the school system makes learning a chore. Most children are naturally inquisitive but if you make learning seem like a chore many of them shut down. Teenagers I don't like. If I do have children once they hit 13 I'd send them away to military school. Forget about them until they come back at 18.

Anyway, it does seem like a lot of hard work to raise children. I also don't like the restrictions it would cause. I can't just do whatever I want anymore. In other words I'd have to grow up a bit. No more running half naked and drunk through the Pine Lands trying to shoot the ever elusive Jersey Devil.

You raised a very good point, the schooling system and the amount of control the government has over families/ children is ridiculous.

[Dandelion]

Keep in mind that your husband will be able to have children even in his 60s. There's no pressure for him.

However, no one wants to have a child in his 60s, not even a man. You don't wan't to look like the grandpa of your child. As a male, I personally think that once you hit 30 you should start thinking about procreating, otherwise remain childless.

Of course, I'm being conservative here. It's just that I never envy those old gray men with young children.

[Lena]

I would teach them to be lawabiding citizens and i would teach them to live healthy and that sports is also important and i would like to see them be good workers and respected in society, respect the olders and able to defend themselfes. I would like them to love me and respect me and dont become violent, criminal or like that, and that they are healthy.

IMO, the most important thing is not to lower your (future) kids self-esteem (when I hear parent telling kids how 'stupid' they are or to be quiet my blood boils instantly and it takes really great effort to control my self and stay calm, not responding to it), to recognize their uniqueness and support, financially if needed, their talents. Everything else you listed is pretty much basic culture, something all kids should get from the starting point.

[Didriksson]

However, no one wants to have a child in his 60s, not even a man. You don't wan't to look like the grandpa of your child. As a male, I personally think that once you hit 30 you should start thinking about procreating, otherwise remain childless.

Alla Pugacheva, 64 years old...

[Didriksson]

lol, aren't you married?

That was a very, very bad joke.

[Dandelion]

lol, aren't you married?

She moved to Britain to gay-marry link, sadly, same-sex marriage is neither legal in the UK.

[Didriksson]

Even if Link would like girls, I doubt she'd like me.

She moved to Britain to gay-marry link, sadly, same-sex marriage is neither legal in the UK.

[Dandelion]

Alla Pugacheva, 64 years old...

Yeah, a surrogate with the sperm of her way younger husband. That news also has reached me. Crazy woman who can't accept she's getting old (as proves her abuse of plastic surgery).