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Yes, saving oneself for marriage is ideal.
No, it doesn't matter in the end.
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My view on sex is about the same as my view on drugs: There's nothing evil about it, but there's no need to spend your life addicted to it. And personally, I'm too shy to be that way with random people. I wouldn't say marriage needs to be waited for, but at least someone worth being that close to.
I'd never hold anyone else to the same though; this is just my opinion.
I guess I live an accidental straight-edge lifestyle?
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Nothing wrong with premarital sex. In fact I would not marry anyone I hadn't slept with. Also sex is very important in relationships, during intercourse both partners produce hormones which help bond the pair together, probably one of the reasons we have sax when no children are possible/desired
Cattle die, kinsmen die,
the self must also die;
but glory never dies,
For the one who is able to achieve it.
Sayings of the High One.
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Pre martial sex ... well i knew if i stayed here long enough we would eventually get to the good stuff
IMO, my religion ( Paganism,) teaches that prematrial sex is healthy if done in safe and knowledgeable manner. I had sex on Yule at the age of 16, in the back of a car, and while i don't think it was a mistake it also helped me to understand my body and to get comfortable with what was going on with my body.
I think that having sex is an act for reproducing and pleasure. I feel that sex is a beautiful way of showing some one you love that you love and trust them to see you nude, pretty much reveling everything to this one person. I would never have sex outside of a relationship. I only want to show my body to someone i am dating and am commited to.
Premartial sex for me and only me is okay and is encouraged, it helps reduce stress, is a great activity for cardio and shows love and trust for one's partner.
And that is the what the peanut gallery has to say.
To be bright of brain, let no man boast,
but take good heed of his tongue:
the sage and silent come seldom to grief
as they fare among folk in the hall
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what? why?
What's disgusting about having sex? Or retarded?
These days you could pick up a disease in a bus, food even hospitals, I still take buses and eat, I mean, you gotta be careful sure, but not paranoidThere are a lot of things I could say about it.
Like picking up diseases which lie dormant til you give them to your new husband.
Or having babies before you're married and being ditched by all of the fathers.
Sex is for reproduction,
not to make a fool out of yourself with.
I really think you're mixing having sex and promiscuity, or whoring?
A thunder from the sky frying you for dinner
AND how is that any better or any different?!Originally Posted by Saxan Starbreeze
On one thing we agree, somewhat - there is so much more in a relationship than sex, but sex is a vital part of it, or should be, once that thing goes wrong, trust me, everything else does.. and I wish you were right about marriage and yet i can't deny the feeling in my head saying it still lives in Celtic fairytales only..And it's not like sex is all that matters in a relationship.
Marriage is about eternal love.
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Nothing wrong with it at all. You become a better lover with practice and experience. Sex is the binding between two people. If that is not there, or is defunct in some manner, then the relationship is perched on a precarious precipice, relying mostly on what should have been built alongside the sexual encounters.
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Yes, but also sex can be just sex, so there is no reason to spoil relationship worked on for years because of a mistake if you're able to work further on it, that's it. Not everything is always black and white, but basically, you're right.
And no, I never ever cheated in my life, not once, I've been cheated on several times and see, while once I was get the hell out of my sight the other time I did my best to get over it because relationship meant damn much to me and did not won't to lose everything cause of pushing and making farm animal voices in drunken condition for probably 10 minutes, tho, did not work out, it did ruin everything, see, some people can forgive, some can't, I can't and wish if I could
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Well.. been there too. I remember the days in which I was together with my ex and sometimes you just wanted to curl up together and eat each other alive so to speak.
Sex for the sake of sex. Yes perhaps so-- but only with the one you love. Otherwise I'd actually be bloody scared (even with a condom): one can never be too certain in this world.
Wake up and smell the coffee.
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Regarding cheating -
..if i remember correctly she told me to go out and do the same just don't tell her about it which pissed me off even more so i said a lot of things including threats involving stabbing, screwdriver and gasoline, so yeah, hopeless, glad I am done with that crap.
Well, there is nothing to be scared of, and what the hell, if i die because of sex - so be it - could not wish for a better reason, people die for less.
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