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It's incredibly hard for me to stand people who are clumsy
Be it in sport or in any context, people who can't run properly, that can't move smoothly, when I see people not being able to cut vegetables properly, or when they can't mount a furniture, hold a hammer or hit a nail, ...
I often have the urge to intervene and say "Stop, let me do it, you will hurt yourself..."
This is something I have felt since I was a kid, without conceptualizing it, growing up in the West. We have a very common insult in Serbian, it's being "smotan" (= clumsy, awkward), often parents will scold children by saying "Kako si smotan..." (how clumsy/dumb you are) but not only parents, it's commonly used between adults, especially for men, it's part of the manhood.
Since I know French and English, I didn't notice this kind of remark being used by "Western" parents towards their children, It can explain why Balkan people emphasize more the need to be "skilful", "handy", "nifty" and therefore are over-represented in construction sector/contractors in the West
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