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Yes, saving oneself for marriage is ideal.
No, it doesn't matter in the end.
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Well, yeah one could say it is ideal after wedlock, but things seldom go according to plan & I sure as shit didn't commit to it, that's why it's an ideal scenario. You can try to divorce sex from reproduction, which is childishly dumb, however that doesn't stop us from willfully deluding ourselves, that's no board game or mere social activity, the fact that just taking chances with it can make you sick or pregnant happens for a reason.
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Doesnt matter really as long as ur not sleeping around and the u actually like the person ur doing it with.
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I respect people who wait for marriage. It seems anachronistic nowadays though. Which is a shame.
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Me and my husband both waited until we were married to have sex. I have always believed people should wait until they're married to have sex. That's what most people used to do, and things were much better back in those times. Waiting until you're married to have sex is better for your relationship, family and kids, and better for your health and well being.
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Yes and no.
Yes - It can be beneficial for individuals to engage in premarital sex. Exploring sexual compatibility before making a lifelong commitment can help couples understand each other's desires, preferences, and boundaries. It allows them to develop a deeper level of intimacy and trust, which are crucial elements in a successful marriage. Additionally, for some individuals, suppressing sexual urges can lead to frustration and clouded judgment, potentially resulting in rushed decisions or choosing incompatible partners. By engaging in premarital sex responsibly, couples can alleviate this tension and make more informed decisions about their future together. Furthermore, addressing any sexual compatibility issues before marriage can help prevent feelings of dissatisfaction or betrayal later on.
No - In the sanctity of marriage, there exists a special bond, one where both partners aspire to an exclusive commitment. It's a pact where each person treasures the uniqueness and value of their partner's 'merchandise.' For some, the idea of freely giving away this precious gift before marriage may raise questions about its worth. After all, if someone has readily offered their 'merchandise' without much consideration, it may lead one to wonder about its true value. In such a scenario, why should one be expected to make the ultimate commitment when the foundation of exclusivity seems compromised?
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