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i just ghost back and if the other person still doesnt feel like replying, then i move on to someone else. might be harsh but so is ghosting/ignoring someone
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Try developing a split personality.
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I do agree with ghosting back like the person mentioned above, regardless of whether it's a friend, colleague, date or other person. Unfortunately kindness doesn't really ever help and in fact it will just reassure the ghosters' feelings and thoughts that you're weak and inferior, which is what they likely think about you if they ghost you even though it's kind of hypocritical because by ghosting you they show that they are weak passive aggressive pussies. Whatever you do DO NOT repeatedly try to get back in touch with them it will only make you feel worse and if they ghost you, you have to accept the hard truth that they may have possibly NEVER respected you or liked you all along and they are definitely not a friend or ally. You have to dump them no matter how close you felt to them. Which is unfortunately what I've learned from my years of being ghosted repeatedly by others. It sucks that it's so common nowadays for people to ghost in general, but for coping I would say that unfortunately you might have to come to expect ghosting to be the standard/expected behavior from others, especially online as I find people are even more likely to ghost online.
But yeah tbh I definitely understand it is very hard when there is no closure as to what happened especially if you knew the person for an extended period of time. I also still wonder if I could have done something wrong or if the other person didn't like me for some stupid reason. Tbh since I know how painful ghosting is I only do it if it is 100% absolutely necessary for some reason. I also still wonder if the people who ghosted me hate me and if I could really EVER come to forgive them. Hell I've even been ghosted by people I did the world for and was probably the best friend they would ever have, even by people I've supported through tough times and was always nice to. Being ghosted by employers sucks ass as well.
I hope things get better for you though and I hope you don't get ghosted again I'm sorry that happened.
Anyways I know this is a controversial subject, but please don't be rude to me if you don't like my opinion. I'm open to other opinions .
I would also suggest cutting all contact with the ghoster permanently, if they try to get back in touch with you I would run!
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Who ghosted you? I presume a guy who you want to be your boyfriend. If so, how many guys did you ghost?
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My sister was recently dumped by her bf. Je just ghosted her and immediately had someone else. Trust me, ghosters always come back earlier or later. But once I closed my doors I won’t open them again
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Kasya came from a long line of ghosted women. She became a high priest
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