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I am choosing not to be jealous or envious of anyone because it seems to make me miserable inside. Why is this? It is because I am crushing my soul. When I choose to be jealous or envious (they are familiar but separate), I am choosing death and not life. When I feel jealous of someone, I turn it around and then I try to be happy for them. I am happy for Frank James on youtube because he and his wife had a healthy baby, and another one is on the way. I am happy for Raewald because he seems at peace with himself and he found a partner. I am happy for successful musicians like Morgan Wallen because they probably worked hard to get where they are and deserve to reap the rewards of their hard work. I have no time to feel sorry for myself anymore because it isn't helping me advance in any way , shape, or form.
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That's right, it also makes both the envious and the envied unhappy.
"Amicus Plato, sed magis amica veritas"
"Dimidium facti, qui coepit, habet: sapere aude, incipe."
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Ahh. You'll go back to hating and envying others again in no time.
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Yeah, negativity breeds negativity.
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Wise man said: "when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."
Try doing your best to keep thinking positive thoughts.
Soon enough, your brain will rewire, making it second nature.
Good on you, Richie.
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Envy and jealousy are not existent by chance but do actually have their legit function.
They give us a motivation push for being able to perform something that improves our situation. It's an alarming and laborious condition and it should just be used short term in order to support needed actions.
Long term envy and jealousy is exhausting and damaging yourself.
If you anyhow will not take any action envy and jealousy are pointless.
As for you, RMB, where a lot of conditions are not okay and there is some action desperately needed for improvement of life conditions, envy and jealousy should be taken as a gift by nature and a help to fix things. This said, feel the power of envy and jealousy, feel the pain and the momentum, get your ass up and find a girlfriend yourself!
These feelings are one of the last possibilities to get enough motivation to fix your life.
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Hope this mentality lasts.
Don't take anything on the internet too seriously. Look: 🐓🚗. The chicken is bigger than the car. None of this is real. And people who have arguments on the internet are losers.
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