Why I can't have a boyfriend and why my elder brother catches me when I talk to boys?

[Mary]

I'm talking about men who want to have serious relationship and get married. Not "boys" who are looking for fun. Yep they would "respect" you.

And I know that majority of girls with college do get marry before 28-30 years. Since you said that you never had female friends you can't claim that they don't marry when you don't even know them.

1) Did you just get here from the 1950s? Do you know how many young men are looking for that? Absolutely zero.

2) You have got to be kidding me. Go look up the stats.

3) Most girls that I went to school with, good schools, private schools, are not married. Most of them also don't have children. A majority of them don't even have a successful career as expected of them. Especially the girls who were the best girls in class.

4) The girls who got the best grades in class, this is especially true for them. Everyone around them is going "but she was such a good girl!"

5) Also a lot of these girls weren't ugly, they were pretty and popular. Most of them had very pleasant personalities, at least when I knew them.

6) I had female friends in High School and College.

[Nurzat]

having a boyfriend or girlfriend in your teen years is only reason for future drama and unfulfilment - instead of focusing on school and learning skills to make you competitive later on in college and to find a good job, you will get intoxicated with hormones and biochemical stuff in your body that will make you fall in love (the way teens perceive that love is an obsession with the other, jealousy, addiction). you will be so much better off if you keep a non-sexual approach with others at this age and focus on what you love and improve it, make skills, improve foreign language, swim, run, get sporty, get offline (avoid Facebook and social networks where people only lie and try to look other than they are - happier, wealthier etc).

teens cannot handle relationships so they get to do very wrong things for so-called love in those years - run away from home, drop school, get pregnant, get an abortion, destroy their body and mind.

teens are very insecure, since they are totally dependent on their family for money and shelter, so they can get addicted to the boyfriend/girlfriend and think that person will take them away and take care of them.

I can objectively answer more specific questions if you want, here or in private. I had a 17 year old girlfriend when I was 25 and took care of her, and I know how crazy even brightest teens can get over relationships - she was saying stuff like she wants to run away from her wealthy family and move in with me (of course I talked it over and made her change her mind and even though their parents feared me, I made her appreciate and respect them more, because I understood them all better than they understood me - they were just reacting normally to what was happening and had normal fears about their daughter).

be happy and appreciate what you have - the age of 15 is wonderful without being in a relationship and you have so few responsibilities and so much free time to enjoy yourself. you will have all your life afterwards to worry about relationships and work.. so don't spoil your teen years with relationship drama..

I didn't date girls until I was 20 and didn't marry until I was almost 30 and I am happily married and a father now at 31, because I didn't hurry or forced things. in my adolescence I concentrated on sports, music and hanging out with the boys

[Mortimer]

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It's an old pic.

You look like a mean bitch

[Sora]

sen daha ufaksin abicim . böyle seylere kafani yorma ve aileni üzme

Ah abiciğim. Ama benim çevremde her kızın bir erkek arkadaşı var. Hadi Konya gibi muhafazakar bir şehirde yaşasam böyle şeyleri sorun etmezdim. Ama ben İstanbul(Avrupa) gibi neredeyse 16 yaşının üstünde herkesin erkek/kız arkadaşı olduğu, ve öyle olmayanların eziklendiği bir şehirde yaşıyorum O yüzden ben de özeniyorum. Ama annem ve abim sürekli engel oluyorlar.

[Mary]

You look like a mean bitch

Really? I'm actually nice and cute.

[Moje ime]

1) Did you just get here from the 1950s? Do you know how many young men are looking for that? Absolutely zero.

2) You have got to be kidding me. Go look up the stats.

3) Most girls that I went to school with, good schools, private schools, are not married. Most of them also don't have children. A majority of them don't even have a successful career as expected of them. Especially the girls who were the best girls in class.

4) The girls who got the best grades in class, this is especially true for them. Everyone around them is going "but she was such a good girl!"

5) Also a lot of these girls weren't ugly, they were pretty and popular. Most of them had very pleasant personalities, at least when I knew them.

6) I had female friends in High School and College.

I'm talking about Serbia in 21st century and my experience. I don't know what you talk about.

Also I don't know one husband who would like his wife has porn pictures on net.

[Mary]

I'm talking about Serbia in 21st century and my experience. I don't know what you talk about.

Also I don't know one husband who would like his wife has porn pictures on net.

1) I'm talking about the stats in pretty much every Western country. The same trend is most likely happening in Serbia right now, it just hasn't shown up in the statistics yet.

2) Well I know lots. I think everyone would, because the alternative is a dead bedroom.

[Moje ime]

1) I'm talking about the stats in pretty much every Western country. The same trend is most likely happening in Serbia right now, it just hasn't shown up in the statistics yet.

2) Well I know lots. I think everyone would, because the alternative is a dead bedroom.

1 There are lot of couples who live together for years but they are not married. They are not in statistics.

2 I don't know any woman who would want to have porn pictures of herself online. Why you actually do that?

[Nurzat]

1 There are lot of couples who live together for years but they are not married. They are not in statistics.

2 I don't know any woman who would want to have porn pictures of herself online. Why you actually do that?

Mary is saying things in her style but overall she is right in many aspects - married people, young ones, say under 50, that were young in the 90s, are more and more open in their bedrooms and swinger clubs now exist even in Eastern Europe and the Balkans, in cities over 200k population. I know one in my city (I don't go there, don't worry lol). but the thing is people are more and more open in their sexual lives and it's only the beginning. this is the trend, it slowly grows, I am not into that at all, I have never been obsessed with sex related things and I concentrate on my hobbies instead (glad to have found a woman that isn't into sex much either). I am an open minded socialist and I respect each person's right to do whatever, and I admit that people now are so much more into it, doing things our parents cannot imagine of in the bedroom

[Nattens Madrigal]

Öncelikle bu forum bu konu için uygun bir ortam değil.Bu tarz forumlar %80 %90 kadın düşmanı loser tayfa insanlarla ve her konuyu trollemeye müsait kişilerle dolu.Arap,Alman Çinli fark etmez.Sorununa gelince seni anlıyorum aşırı muhafazakar bir aileden geliyorsun belli.Bana uzak olduğu için düzgün empati yapamıyorum ama hormonlarının etkisiyle ve çevrenin etkileriyle böyle bir isteğinin olması normal.Senden büyük kız kardeşim var o yüzden az da olsa anlayabiliyorum.Eğer ailenin yapısı böyle ise tek yapman gereken derslerine ve okuluna odaklanman ve kendi ayaklarının üzerinde durana kadar çalışmak.Belki dizilerde gördüğün lise hayatına özeniyor olabilirsin çok normal ama gerçek hayatla her zaman uymuyor.İstediğin gibi bir lise hayatın olmaz ama çalışırsan ileri yaşlarda istediğin başka şeyleri gerçekleştirebilirsin.Ne yazık ki herkes aynı şartlarda yaşamıyor.Ailene çok karşı gelme Türkiye burası yapacak bir şey yok.Kendini böyle şeyler için üzmeye değmez.