Crazy theory on attraction

[itilvolga]

For someone who likes similar looking person (med likes med) it means they have narcissistic personality & too much self love, strong delusional concept of self-identity.

Not really. I personally look Mediterranean and i also like Mediterranean types more because i feel myself close to them. Those cold looking Northerns, especially Russians and Baltics make me feel uncomfortable, somehow. I like the warmth of Southern people and also people from same regions share similar cultures, values and attitudes which make them feel closer to each other. Finding someone attractive is not only about physical appearances, after all. You must feel like home whenever you are with him/her.

So do you see any inclination to narcissism here? I don’t see.

[Annihilus]

I thought people were attracted to those who have very different immunity genes from their own, not personality etc.

[ViriatoIberian]

+1

[CordedWhelp]

I'm a cracker and mi esposa is a Castiza and rather Atlanto-Med+Amerindian influence. I tended to go with females in the past who were also fairly different from myself. Even the all NW european chick I dated in high school was an Irish redhead, so thus fairly different as well...lol

[War Chef]

Not really. I personally look Mediterranean and i also like Mediterranean types more because i feel myself close to them. Those cold looking Northerns, especially Russians and Baltics make me feel uncomfortable, somehow. I like the warmth of Southern people and also people from same regions share similar cultures, values and attitudes which make them feel closer to each other. Finding someone attractive is not only about physical appearances, after all. You must feel like home whenever you are with him/her.

So do you see any inclination to narcissism here? I don’t see.

It's not really narcissism. Could be a strong sense of pride or uber-high self esteem. But generally people who like other people who look similar to them are projecting their self-love onto someone else. That person they love is just a continuation of them self. Not necessarily a bad thing.

BTW your dating history says otherwise, from what I remember you dated a nordid.

[Sora]

I'm Caucasian/Alpine-looking girl but I don't find Caucasian/Alpine-looking guys attractive. I find East Asian men attractive, especially the Korean men. I love their monolid eyes and well-groomedness.

So the further, the better...

[Seya]

my taste is changing all the time. is that weird?
or maybe the look it just doesn't play a decisive role

[itilvolga]

BTW your dating history says otherwise, from what I remember you dated a nordid.

I was only 17, my preferences took shape in the process of time.

[IrisSelene]

I personally find both people similar to me and different to me attractive.

Like, out of Europeans, I do prefer much more eastern European men, both northern and southern. I was never super into western men.

But at the same time, I'm the most attracted to more mongoloid features. I like the low bridge and small noses, the monolid eyes, I think they're beautiful lol. And even if they don't have monolids, I adore especially the epicanthic folds.

So tbh I would say that rather than being more attracted to Asians or Europeans or whatever, I'm just very much into those traits.

As even most white guys ive liked had some epicanthic fold or simulation of it and rather tiny noses lmao

And I realized I'm even more into mixed race people. Idk why.

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[Joso]

I dont know but i think it is true for most people but not for me, i like girls that look similar to me