What is the single most important thing that attracts a woman to a man

[Marinus]

I guess being an outcast/loner will have the opposite effect then.....

Yes but: "Disregard women, acquire currency." as the meme goes.

There's always MGTOW in such cases, men don't lose SMV after 30 and it may even increase (as long as they work on themselves), women on the other hand do devalue a lot.

[Rædwald]

Women like someone who has goals honestly. It shows that you can be reliable, self-sufficient and so on. Women like someone they know they can lean on, but not have as much effort in the same sense in return.



...Essentially, they want Men.

[MsSPF]

I know one quite-attractive girl (in some countries she would be considered well-above-average) which according to herself chooses to date only ugly guys. I don't know how ugly though. She says that she is not afraid that she has a womanizer who will betray her in such a situation. So certain men should realise that the reason behind them being ignored may not lie in their insufficient physical attractiveness.

True, I have some female friends who think similarly. They are not dating specifically ugly men... just men above their league. I used to think the same way, I don't think it's true anymore. Beautiful women are cheated on everyday by average joes, if a man wants to cheat on you, he will. Although I understand the logic around it : "beautiful" people always attract more attention, thus they have greater chance to be more solicited = more temptations... at the same time, average looking men can be very sucessful with women while attractive men, not so much. "Beauty" is definitely not the most important feature when it comes to men's attractiveness in general.

[MsSPF]

Women like someone who has goals honestly. It shows that you can be reliable, self-sufficient and so on. Women like someone they know they can lean on, but not have as much effort in the same sense in return.



...Essentially, they want Men.

clap clap

I couldn't have said it better

Nothing's more unattractive than a passive man

[MiloshN]

I know one quite-attractive girl (in some countries she would be considered well-above-average) which according to herself chooses to date only ugly guys. I don't know how ugly though. She says that she is not afraid that she has a womanizer who will betray her in such a situation. So certain men should realise that the reason behind them being ignored may not lie in their insufficient physical attractiveness.

lol there is a change for me

[PaleoEuropean]

Courage, if you don't have balls you ain't giving her the dick. Women like guys who are in control but make them feel safe.

[War Chef]

Courage, if you don't have balls you ain't giving her the dick. Women like guys who are in control but make them feel safe.

You can over-do it and end up looking like a try-hard, or a crackhead with excess bravado.
Though yeah I agree with the general gist of your post.

[PaleoEuropean]

You can over-do it and end up looking like a try-hard, or a crackhead with excess bravado.
Though yeah I agree with the general gist of your post.

Of course or a like a creep, but I am talking about having the courage to even talk to a woman which most people who have problems lack.

[1GiantLeapForMankind]

What is the single most important thing that attracts a woman to a man?

Hope & desperation, cuz they know they are just meat to most men and one day there gona get OLD. Hence Plastic surgery, padded bras, padded ass, 3 hrs in Hair & makeup, getting drunk to work up the courage to look at a guy they like, only to act like they need to be impressed to hide their craving for being fucked and making babies.

[pajkosbalna]

Women like someone who has goals honestly. It shows that you can be reliable, self-sufficient and so on. Women like someone they know they can lean on, but not have as much effort in the same sense in return.



...Essentially, they want Men.

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