Do you think that your life would have been better if you were born as opposite gender ?

[Incal]

Sounds like the women are too assertive. Must be cultural.

Difficult I'd say. That's why I always advise to avoid them: they'll just ruin your life.

[Petalpusher]

I‘d say, you should neither worship those with many girls nor trouble those with more female attributes, or at least less, that would be the best. In any case women with many sex partners are worshipped by no gender, so you are better off.

Neither men who don't naturally radiate masculinity. We both have our icks, im not trying to change them for women. Even if this comes from good intentions, you can only go so far trying to act on the operating system, when you can't change the hardware. Landing on 2023's earth with the mission to swipe off million years of evolution even through coercion, is irrealistic and extremely pretentious, most certainly vain.

Besides, it might well have the opposite effects, which is what we are starting to see i believe. It's all fun and pretending when it's just words, social guidelines, vague incentives.... you surely can tame that for the greater good, we have been civilized as a matter of fact. Until it affects your deeper nature and own life choices for relationships, this is the wall you can't traverse. At some point everybody on each sides is gonna cling at this tighter than ever when people see you want to go chipping at it.

[Haldis]

Perhaps it would have been easier, biologically i'd say. No need to painfully bleed every month, rollercoaster of hormones and emotions accompanying that, constant pressure to look 'pleasing' which requires money, time and patience. And it doesn't end with physical difficulties either, social pressure, just a small example, I've always wondered how it would feel to finally feel safe, to be able to wear whatever I want to wear, anytime, anywhere. On the contrary, even though it might be less painful, physically, it is more challenging to be man, I believe. Too many responsibilities - even though most guys lack it nowadays-, too much weight on their shoulders. But I can easily say that I love being a woman though.