do you really care about being a person that you wanted to be

[vailingcloud]

i am asking this question myself a lot. I am trying harder now. There are some poeple that i really like from ancient greece and rome, i see them as my role models

[gixajo]

Not anymore.

[Beowulf]

yes i do.

[vailingcloud]

yes i do.

how do you do that?

[Seikilos]

Is it possible to not aspire to be someone? From an ideal character we can use as an archetype to project a vision, an avatar of a shape we cannot currently incarnate, to a version of ourselves which is in a better position, ready to enjoy better conditions than those we find ourselves in, i don't think it is possible to lead an aimless life to such an extent where we have no aspirations, even when it comes to our form. But to more directly answer your question, yes, of course.

[Beowulf]

how do you do that?

I'm only trying i'm not even close to be the type of person i want to be.

But i do care about it.

[Incal]

There are some poeple that i really like from ancient greece and rome, i see them as my role models

Same.

[vailingcloud]

who is the best role model for you?

[Anglo-Celtic]

That describes our whole lives. We strive to be the best that we can be, and we try to learn from our mistakes and our problems like salmon swimming upstream, but the main thing is to not drown. Sometimes, I just try to get through the day. There are times when I think about changing my user name to "Job".

[Incal]

who is the best role model for you?

Socrates, Xenophon, Marcus Aurelius and Cicero.