Would you rather be feared or loved ?

**B01AB20** · 09-08-2018, 01:01 PM

Loved by the ones I like, feared by the ones I dislike.

Sealin · 09-08-2018, 01:11 PM

I'd rather like to be loved. Although, with respect.

**HELLBANIAN** · 09-08-2018, 10:42 PM

Bump

**Teutone** · 09-08-2018, 10:43 PM

You are loved by your family anyway

Fear opens you more doors also one of the best qoutes ever is:

"hate is a stronger motivator than love"

**~~Joso~~** · 09-08-2018, 11:02 PM

Originally Posted by MissMischief

Well, it is not always desirable to be either loved or feared.

To be loved exorbitantly may stunt one's growth or create a stalker. To be feared excessively may band others against you, and prevent you from connecting with them.

Uhm decisions decisions. Ok maybe I'd prefer to be loved.

When people fear you, no one wants to be around you or get close to you. If you are loved, it brings you and others happiness and joy. Fear may give you power, but not any kind of power that I would want.

In the end, being loved and being a good person will make you happier than being a powerful and great one.

To be loved is always good, you just don't have to dependent of it. So i prefer to love myself before anything, of course. And there is no reason to be feared.