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    Quote Originally Posted by Jansob View Post
    What makes me look like me and not Clark Gable? God? Genetics? That's not really an answerable question.
    But it is. What makes me unattractive? (aside from weight, which I guess I can fix). I need to know so I can correct the issue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richmondbread View Post
    But what makes my face un handsome?
    The chub mate. Handsome isn't all about the face. Proportion counts. How you dress for your proportions is important too. Plenty of big, strong plain looking cowboys with pretty girls hanging off them.
    Nine out of ten concerns are completely unfounded.

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    Meade, you need to stop obsessing about this. You're asking what you can do to change your facial features so you look some unspecified "handsome" when your facial features aren't the problem...the problem is the expression in your eyes, the way you carry yourself, the negative energy you give off.

    You look unhappy and unconfident, and the only way to fix that is to be happier and more confident.

    This is a "get some therapy" issue, not a "this particular feature is somehow wrong" issue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jansob View Post
    Meade, you need to stop obsessing about this. You're asking what you can do to change your facial features so you look some unspecified "handsome" when your facial features aren't the problem...the problem is the expression in your eyes, the way you carry yourself, the negative energy you give off.

    You look unhappy and unconfident, and the only way to fix that is to be happier and more confident.

    This is a "get some therapy" issue, not a "this particular feature is somehow wrong" issue.
    I understand all that. But what can I do to have handsome facial features?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jansob View Post
    Meade, you need to stop obsessing about this. You're asking what you can do to change your facial features so you look some unspecified "handsome" when your facial features aren't the problem...the problem is the expression in your eyes, the way you carry yourself, the negative energy you give off.

    You look unhappy and unconfident, and the only way to fix that is to be happier and more confident.

    This is a "get some therapy" issue, not a "this particular feature is somehow wrong" issue.
    That would take some serious self-reflection and looking at issues he has been avoiding for decades.

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    You seem to be overweight. Losing weight should be your priority if you want to achieve a more attractive appearance. If you need to, I can explain more in detail how you could lose weight without just 'eating nothing but vegetables'.
    Having a lower body fat will modify your face. Just search "faces before and after weight loss" on Google. Some people are really doomed because their facial structure is poor : low symmetry, recessive chin, very thin jaw, bad eye shape, high eyebrows, ugly nose, extremely gracile looks (which is cute on women, not on men). It doesn't look to be your case.
    Overall, I totally understand this sense of unfairness : being born with 'unlucky' lineaments and having to cope with that. It's obviously about looks, but also intelligence, physical and mental health, social background, dexterity... But put things into perspective : at least, you have a way out. If you had been lean, muscular and still seen as ugly, improving your looks would have been harder. And even a 6'4" clever quarterback can be unhappy and feel miserable.

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    Nothing. God made you the way he made you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richmondbread View Post
    I understand all that. But what can I do to have handsome facial features?
    Just losing weight, the only other thing that can be done to augment the appearance of your face is through grooming your facial hair and surgery.

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    So obviously you didn't understand it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richmondbread View Post
    But it is. What makes me unattractive? (aside from weight, which I guess I can fix). I need to know so I can correct the issue.
    Sometimes I think you're a troll, but I will reply anyway. Your emotional outbursts make you unattractive for a start (it's enough to see your behavior in this thread). Women don't like a man who complains, cries (especially about his looks!), fishes for compliments, needs emotional support and is mentally weak. You need to study female psychology and female preferences instead of bible stories, maybe you would learn something worthwhile. You need to act more manly.

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