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Pertoto
09-23-2020, 08:38 AM
I wonder its just my parents or every parents against dna test?
My parents told me its waste of money. You are who u are. Why do u care what happends in the past. U are funny why its metters ? Anyone get feedbacks like this or its just me (:
Honestly the dna test that I did was for myself only.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:03 AM
Anyone had the same sitioation ?
Scandal
09-23-2020, 10:04 AM
You don't need to tell them you're getting tested.
2garin
09-23-2020, 10:07 AM
Maybe they're not your parents.
I wonder its just my parents or every parents against dna test?
My parents told me its waste of money. You are who u are. Why do u care what happends in the past. U are funny why its metters ? Anyone get feedbacks like this or its just me (:
Honestly the dna test that I did was for myself only.
Share your Italian gedmatch results :)
My parents don't care much about it but they allowed me to test them.
Chris596
09-23-2020, 10:30 AM
I told my parents about it and they said it's alright.
On the other hand, they are not really interested in testing themselves. They always tell me: ,,you did the test and you're almost 100% East European, what else do you expect from us?'' lol
Ion Basescul
09-23-2020, 10:41 AM
Mine were curious personally.
Kaspias
09-23-2020, 10:42 AM
I tested my father while he was drunk. Effective solution, recommend everyone.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:44 AM
I told my parents about it and they said it's alright.
On the other hand, they are not really interested in testing themselves. They always tell me: ,,you did the test and you're almost 100% East European, what else do you expect from us?'' lol
Lol and you had a huge suprise (: what did they told u about your results ?
Ion Basescul
09-23-2020, 10:45 AM
I wonder its just my parents or every parents against dna test?
My parents told me its waste of money. You are who u are. Why do u care what happends in the past. U are funny why its metters ? Anyone get feedbacks like this or its just me (:
Honestly the dna test that I did was for myself only.
I can recommend telling them that this is a hobby for you. Then they might actually become more open, as they will know what you are going to spend some of your free time on.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:45 AM
You don't need to tell them you're getting tested.
You right thats what I should do if I knew they will act like that...
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:46 AM
Share your Italian gedmatch results :)
My parents don't care much about it but they allowed me to test them.
I just ordered Ancestry so I wait for my results it will be much accurate with sub regions I will share them
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:47 AM
I can recommend telling them that this is a hobby for you. Then they might actually become more open, as they will know what you are going to spend some of your free time on.
They think that I am weird to do that so , I just wont involve them anymore...
Chris596
09-23-2020, 10:47 AM
Lol and you had a huge suprise (: what did they told u about your results ?
Yeah xD My results are certainly not average. I expected myself to be at least 10% Western European (generally Hungarians are 10-20% Western European or even more). The Jewish was one of the biggest surprise, I have no idea where it comes from.
The Scandinavian is another mistery, I think it's not really Scandinavian, but maybe old Saxon/Swabian admixture, maybe.
And the Italian on FTDNA is surely not Italian, but some Balkan ancestry too.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:50 AM
I tested my father while he was drunk. Effective solution, recommend everyone.
Lol
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 10:51 AM
Yeah xD My results are certainly not average. I expected myself to be at least 10% Western European (generally Hungarians are 10-20% Western European or even more). The Jewish was one of the biggest surprise, I have no idea where it comes from.
The Scandinavian is another mistery, I think it's not really Scandinavian, but maybe old Saxon/Swabian admixture, maybe.
And the Italian on FTDNA is surely not Italian, but some Balkan ancestry too.
Yes I saw your resulrs, not simmilar to the average hungarian, that was a shock for them or they was like "ok nice" ?
I just ordered Ancestry so I wait for my results it will be much accurate with sub regions I will share them
I'm not very interested in Ancestry, I was talking about Gedmatch. If you already have the raw data, you can do it now.
Alenka
09-23-2020, 11:29 AM
Your adoptive parents are trying not to be outed.
:p
paradox
09-23-2020, 12:48 PM
My parents opinions differ. My mother isn't against dna tests, she just isn't interested in taking one herself and would consider it a waste of money.
My father on the other hand had been talking about doing one for years, way before these tests became mainstream. It was so important to him he said he didn't care what it cost.
wisteria
09-23-2020, 12:59 PM
My dad is a tightwad and I doubt he is very interested. I might be able to talk him into it if I bought the test for him. My sister wanted him to participate in the Manx y-dna study when they were doing it and he agreed to it, but I don’t think my sister ever got the ball rolling. My moms a bit of a conspiracy theorist but I had her talked into it, then she found out she had cancer around the same time and has been on chemo. She’s been having problems with her white blood cells being low so I don’t even know if she will even be able to now.
paradox
09-23-2020, 01:02 PM
I tested my father while he was drunk. Effective solution, recommend everyone.Unfortunately my mother doesnt drink [emoji852]
Kaspias
09-23-2020, 01:10 PM
Unfortunately my mother doesnt drink [emoji852]
Same for my mother, so I couldn't test her.
Tacitus
09-23-2020, 01:59 PM
Real talk my parents actually once equated it with selling your soul. :rolleyes:
TheMaestro
09-23-2020, 02:02 PM
I said to my parents, they were just curious what came out, I'm 24, they won't tell me what to not buy lol.
My dad agreed to it but wasn't really interested in his ancestry results only slightly in the health reports. Thought it was a waste of time and money. xD
Celestia
09-23-2020, 02:21 PM
My father thinks ancestry tests are a way the government secretly stores our dna without consent, haha.
Needless to say, I will never be able to test him.
gixajo
09-23-2020, 02:22 PM
I wonder its just my parents or every parents against dna test?
My parents told me its waste of money. You are who u are. Why do u care what happends in the past. U are funny why its metters ? Anyone get feedbacks like this or its just me (:
Honestly the dna test that I did was for myself only.
My mother had not any problem in making her test, but I had to work hard to convince my father.
He said that his DNA was a very intimate thing and that he did not want others to have such sensitive information.
And actually he is absolutely right, we are paying to give some very important data to unknow persons about ourselves that they should pay us for.
Dr_Maul
09-23-2020, 02:23 PM
My parents were fine to get themselves tested however they didn't want me to share their results
calxpal
09-23-2020, 03:09 PM
My dad was originally skeptical of DNA testing but later on agreed to do it himself lol :D my mom wanted to do it in hopes of learning something, so she did it. They enjoyed seeing their results....but they said a few funny things about it I remember like "they now know who you are as a person" and "oh great they have a copy of your genome". My grandma eventually did it too :cool: but was the most disapproving at first lolol she told me "is that a good idea, what if you see something on your results you don't like, you won't be able to unsee it."
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:21 PM
Your adoptive parents are trying not to be outed.
:p
lol by the origions I dont think so (:
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:22 PM
My parents opinions differ. My mother isn't against dna tests, she just isn't interested in taking one herself and would consider it a waste of money.
My father on the other hand had been talking about doing one for years, way before these tests became mainstream. It was so important to him he said he didn't care what it cost.
so thats a good sitioation , atleast they dont think you are a werido because of that.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:25 PM
I said to my parents, they were just curious what came out, I'm 24, they won't tell me what to not buy lol.
thats good, I am 29 married have kids and still need the good feeling from my parents to do something lol...
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:26 PM
My dad agreed to it but wasn't really interested in his ancestry results only slightly in the health reports. Thought it was a waste of time and money. xD
we are on the same sitioation both of my parents are like not intrest in it but health is more intrest them.
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:33 PM
My father thinks ancestry tests are a way the government secretly stores our dna without consent, haha.
Needless to say, I will never be able to test him.
same as I , but after I saw they just dont care from this stuff, I down from it. right now as the begning of my "search" was on myself only, after that I tried to see whats my dad whats my mom. but right now Im back to the start point. maybe u should do it too (:
Pertoto
09-23-2020, 04:36 PM
My dad was originally skeptical of DNA testing but later on agreed to do it himself lol :D my mom wanted to do it in hopes of learning something, so she did it. They enjoyed seeing their results....but they said a few funny things about it I remember like "they now know who you are as a person" and "oh great they have a copy of your genome". My grandma eventually did it too :cool: but was the most disapproving at first lolol she told me "is that a good idea, what if you see something on your results you don't like, you won't be able to unsee it."
very good familiy support is importent, and your grandma sound funny (:
thats the best feeling when u intrest in something and your familiy show u green light to keep do it and getting involved in a good way.
calxpal
09-23-2020, 06:10 PM
very good familiy support is importent, and your grandma sound funny (:
thats the best feeling when u intrest in something and your familiy show u green light to keep do it and getting involved in a good way.
Definitely, and yes she is funny a lot of times :D
And for sure, I love that feeling :cool:.
mitalit
09-23-2020, 06:16 PM
They dont give him much credibility, but I have not insisted on taking it. I think I could convince them but they think it is a waste of money
Hithaeglir
09-24-2020, 02:36 PM
Mine reacted like this too when I suggested it to them. The main reason apparently was that they didn't want their genetic information stored in a company overseas, which is true. Couldn't find anything to beat that statement :D
Rgvgjhvv
09-24-2020, 02:42 PM
My father thinks ancestry tests are a way the government secretly stores our dna without consent, haha.
Needless to say, I will never be able to test him.
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