Facts and myths about dating on the Internet
Dating sites are a good place to find a girlfriend, a lover, and additionally, they will help you fight your shyness. Some people hide that they have dating site accounts, and research says that nearly 20% of adult people have used online dating.
I found an article in Men's Health about internet dating. Which confirms that online dating is as good a place to meet women as is in a coffee shop, clubs, and friends' circles.
Here is an excerpt from an article with my comments:
You can find a wife on the web
Truth
People have less and less time to look for the other half. In real life, they usually turn around in a narrow circle of friends from work, and after a few years, let's be honest, the dating market is wasting away. Anita Pieńkowska, a PR specialist at MyDwoje.pl, says that about 20% of contacts there result in a relationship. In turn, the website purpeni.pl reports that thanks to it, 1038 couples got engaged or got married. Ewa Sapieja from Sympatia.pl says that only last year they were contacted by several hundred couples who created successful relationships.
My comment:
You can find a wife on a dating site, as well as in any other place where people meet.
A little tip ...
When I was making a profile on internet dating, I wouldn't say directly that I am looking for a wife.
Why?
Because a woman might think the guy writing this is either desperate or a cheat. Unfortunately, almost every woman met a guy who declared love, talked about the wedding, promised golden mountains and ... one day he simply left her. Therefore, a woman may be wary of such declarations from the very beginning.
If, in turn, we come across a confident and beautiful woman. It is she who will consider the guy who writes in the profile that "he is lonely and is looking for a wife" desperate and unworthy of attention.
Besides, telling a woman that we are looking for a wife is too much pressure. She wants to get to know the guy first and learn more about him before deciding what direction this relationship is going to take.
The best approach is that you are open to a serious relationship, but you need to get to know a really valuable girl so that you want to create one with someone.
Think this way when writing your profile, texting women, and going on dates with a woman.
You exercise self-confidence and combat shyness
Truth
Online dating is like a flight simulator. You can dryly practice your flirting skills needed in real life, you can try out what kind of flirting you feel best in and what kind of behavior is well received and what is the opposite. Australian Murdoch University found that men who previously complained of shyness increase their self-esteem through virtual contacts with a large number of women. Moreover, rejecting your advances virtually is not as painful as it is in reality.
My comment:
That's right, "picking up on the Internet" will help you fight shyness. Because it is often much easier to write a message to a woman than to talk to a stranger girl live.
Additionally, you can think about what to write before sending the message. Before you meet, you can get to know a girl a bit, so you will have something to talk about on a date. As a result, you will have less stress at the meeting.
And most importantly, each successful or unsuccessful date will add to your experience. And this experience will give you confidence over time. If you are shy, it is much easier to date a girl online than in reality.
Just remember one thing. You cannot limit your contacts with people and only with the Internet. Just treat the Internet as a tool to meet a girl. Do not talk to women forever, only over the Internet, offer meetings in "Real". And do not spend all days in front of the computer because it is also not attractive to women.
Only in reality can you feel the chemistry
Falsehood
This chemistry is a bit like Yeti, or the talent of the vocalist Feel. Apparently someone has seen, but specialists are still not convinced. Communicator is better than chemistry. The University of Bath found that couples who were in constant contact via instant messaging before their dates were three times more likely to be successful than those who were confined to exchanging emails. The success here is a relationship that lasted at least a few months. Dr. Jeff Gavin, author of the experiment and online dating enthusiast, says: "Getting to know each other online is the best way to get your fascination with someone else more solid than your appearance."
My comment:
I agree with one reservation. If we talk to each other over the Internet for too long, we create our own perfect image of the other person in our imagination.
Therefore, the longer we talk on a dating site or gg, the greater expectations a woman will have of this relationship. Which will put unnecessary stress on you. For her, in turn, a disappointment, because she imagined Sat
I found an article in Men's Health about internet dating. Which confirms that online dating is as good a place to meet women as is in a coffee shop, clubs, and friends' circles.
Here is an excerpt from an article with my comments:
You can find a wife on the web
Truth
People have less and less time to look for the other half. In real life, they usually turn around in a narrow circle of friends from work, and after a few years, let's be honest, the dating market is wasting away. Anita Pieńkowska, a PR specialist at MyDwoje.pl, says that about 20% of contacts there result in a relationship. In turn, the website purpeni.pl reports that thanks to it, 1038 couples got engaged or got married. Ewa Sapieja from Sympatia.pl says that only last year they were contacted by several hundred couples who created successful relationships.
My comment:
You can find a wife on a dating site, as well as in any other place where people meet.
A little tip ...
When I was making a profile on internet dating, I wouldn't say directly that I am looking for a wife.
Why?
Because a woman might think the guy writing this is either desperate or a cheat. Unfortunately, almost every woman met a guy who declared love, talked about the wedding, promised golden mountains and ... one day he simply left her. Therefore, a woman may be wary of such declarations from the very beginning.
If, in turn, we come across a confident and beautiful woman. It is she who will consider the guy who writes in the profile that "he is lonely and is looking for a wife" desperate and unworthy of attention.
Besides, telling a woman that we are looking for a wife is too much pressure. She wants to get to know the guy first and learn more about him before deciding what direction this relationship is going to take.
The best approach is that you are open to a serious relationship, but you need to get to know a really valuable girl so that you want to create one with someone.
Think this way when writing your profile, texting women, and going on dates with a woman.
You exercise self-confidence and combat shyness
Truth
Online dating is like a flight simulator. You can dryly practice your flirting skills needed in real life, you can try out what kind of flirting you feel best in and what kind of behavior is well received and what is the opposite. Australian Murdoch University found that men who previously complained of shyness increase their self-esteem through virtual contacts with a large number of women. Moreover, rejecting your advances virtually is not as painful as it is in reality.
My comment:
That's right, "picking up on the Internet" will help you fight shyness. Because it is often much easier to write a message to a woman than to talk to a stranger girl live.
Additionally, you can think about what to write before sending the message. Before you meet, you can get to know a girl a bit, so you will have something to talk about on a date. As a result, you will have less stress at the meeting.
And most importantly, each successful or unsuccessful date will add to your experience. And this experience will give you confidence over time. If you are shy, it is much easier to date a girl online than in reality.
Just remember one thing. You cannot limit your contacts with people and only with the Internet. Just treat the Internet as a tool to meet a girl. Do not talk to women forever, only over the Internet, offer meetings in "Real". And do not spend all days in front of the computer because it is also not attractive to women.
Only in reality can you feel the chemistry
Falsehood
This chemistry is a bit like Yeti, or the talent of the vocalist Feel. Apparently someone has seen, but specialists are still not convinced. Communicator is better than chemistry. The University of Bath found that couples who were in constant contact via instant messaging before their dates were three times more likely to be successful than those who were confined to exchanging emails. The success here is a relationship that lasted at least a few months. Dr. Jeff Gavin, author of the experiment and online dating enthusiast, says: "Getting to know each other online is the best way to get your fascination with someone else more solid than your appearance."
My comment:
I agree with one reservation. If we talk to each other over the Internet for too long, we create our own perfect image of the other person in our imagination.
Therefore, the longer we talk on a dating site or gg, the greater expectations a woman will have of this relationship. Which will put unnecessary stress on you. For her, in turn, a disappointment, because she imagined Sat
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