Woman says she feels empowered after having sex with more than 300 people in one year

**Nurzat** · 11-10-2023, 04:59 PM

Originally Posted by Bodhisattva369

If she is telling the truth, then she is just a TYPICAL narcissist/sociopath. They are very common and have a voracious sexual appetite.

my mother has a textbook narcissist character - is it always linked to sexual appetite? I ask because my mom is a sort of a nun from what she says, regarding this aspect. also a hater of masculine men, she is frightened by them, but she likes and accepts milder men (my dad is such a good guy type as well, so she could command him, and she is really pissed off by me and my brother, which as adults didn't accept her commanding and emotional blackmail games). do you think she could have repressed sexuality?

from ChatGPT:

"Here are some aspects to consider when examining the intersection of narcissism and sexuality:

Sexual Entitlement: Narcissists may feel entitled to special treatment in all aspects of their lives, including their sexual relationships. They might expect their partners to fulfill their desires without reciprocating or considering their partner's needs.

Objectification: Narcissists may view others, including their partners, as objects to satisfy their own needs and desires. They may prioritize their own pleasure and satisfaction over the well-being of their partners.

Manipulation and Control: In some cases, narcissists may use sex as a tool for manipulation and control. They might use sexual behavior to gain power and influence over others, particularly in intimate relationships.

Lack of Empathy: One hallmark of narcissism is a lack of empathy. This can extend to the sexual realm, where a narcissistic individual may not fully understand or care about their partner's emotional experience or needs.

Seeking Validation: Narcissists often seek external validation to boost their self-esteem. This need for validation can extend to their sexual relationships, where they may seek constant affirmation and admiration from their partners."

**HectorOfTroy** · 11-15-2023, 05:05 AM

Originally Posted by Nurzat

my mother has a textbook narcissist character - is it always linked to sexual appetite? I ask because my mom is a sort of a nun from what she says, regarding this aspect. also a hater of masculine men, she is frightened by them, but she likes and accepts milder men (my dad is such a good guy type as well, so she could command him, and she is really pissed off by me and my brother, which as adults didn't accept her commanding and emotional blackmail games). do you think she could have repressed sexuality?

from ChatGPT:

"Here are some aspects to consider when examining the intersection of narcissism and sexuality:

Sexual Entitlement: Narcissists may feel entitled to special treatment in all aspects of their lives, including their sexual relationships. They might expect their partners to fulfill their desires without reciprocating or considering their partner's needs.

Objectification: Narcissists may view others, including their partners, as objects to satisfy their own needs and desires. They may prioritize their own pleasure and satisfaction over the well-being of their partners.

Manipulation and Control: In some cases, narcissists may use sex as a tool for manipulation and control. They might use sexual behavior to gain power and influence over others, particularly in intimate relationships.

Lack of Empathy: One hallmark of narcissism is a lack of empathy. This can extend to the sexual realm, where a narcissistic individual may not fully understand or care about their partner's emotional experience or needs.

Seeking Validation: Narcissists often seek external validation to boost their self-esteem. This need for validation can extend to their sexual relationships, where they may seek constant affirmation and admiration from their partners."

It isn't always linked to sexual appetite but this is kind of chicken and egg question, having too much partners reduces your ability to feel empathy and pair bond/which feeds a narcissistic personality/tendencies, also linked with WAY higher percentages of divorce.