Asexuality

[rhiannon]

That's got to suck. Think of it this way, you won't miss what you haven't had,or may never have.

Most women who can't probably never will. The pisser of the whole thing though is that in film, books, or other media....women that orgasm during intercourse are portrayed as the norm.

They're not. They are actually in the minority.

But for the women that can.....many of them are total sex maniacs because of it I know a few who fit this bill, lol

[Terek]

I think it's also a different thing,
Some people just want sex, only sex as it is, and some people want sex with someone they are attracted to. I am that way, I will only like sex for pleasure if I am attracted to a man, but there are some man who will have sex with anyone just for the feeling of it.

[mymy]

My opinion is that we are all different and all have some our standards. The thing is that many people consider only their standards to be acceptable and normal, while the opposite can look very unnatural and unacceptable in our minds. But, everything is okay while it doesn't hurt other people and also ourselves, and while we are happy with it. Male and female sexuality is much more complex than some people believe, there are lot of varieties... and we shouldn't judge them.
Same goes for religion, being very religions or being atheist, or change your believing from time to time-everything is normal in our life journey, it is process we will pass while we are discovering ourselves, and for different people this process isn't the same.

[Hevneren]

I am just saying as a comparison that its the same way I don't understand.

No, you wrote that Atheists must have a sad existence. It's an assertion on how our lives are, and frankly it's a bit patronising.

I mean to say here, it is that way. I say like it is

No, not all men act like wild animals, and this attitude is why I rebelled against how sex and behaviour is being introduced in modern society.

[Queen B]

Hev, I don't think she meant it that way. She cannot imagine asexuality or life without religious faith because both are very important to her. Conversely, neither you nor I can imagine life WITH a religious faith for much the same reason. I am completely happy as an Agnostic....as I am sure you are as an Atheist.

I also think she did not mean that men are wild animals...although I could be wrong, lol

Probably yes, but she characterized that life as sad and empty. She can never know how my life is with or without them to label it as she likes.
If HER life would be empty without that, okay, but not mine.

As I said, I can't understand how people can be asexual, but what their life is or how they feel their life is without sex, its not me that I can label.

[Terek]

No, not all men act like wild animals, and this attitude is why I rebelled against how sex and behaviour is being introduced in modern society.

You don't live in Chechnya.

[Hevneren]

I mean particularly men here (the caucasus) are hot blooded. They need sex in general or else they do crazy things believe me) If there was a man who did not want sex there was something wrong with him.

That sounds like some kind of mental problem or lack of impulse control. It doesn't seem like normal behaviour.

[Hevneren]

You don't live in Chechnya.

Fair enough, but you're not an Atheist.

[AussieScott]

Most women who can't probably never will. The pisser of the whole thing though is that in film, books, or other media....women that orgasm during intercourse are portrayed as the norm.

They're not. They are actually in the minority.

But for the women that can.....many of them are total sex maniacs because of it I know a few who fit this bill, lol

Well women(Wife shhh) generally don't orgasm all the time every time, there are better times of the month for sex then others, plus there's a variety of other factors.

Testosterone levels have a lot to do with it. A higher testosterone level generally means more sex and more orgasms. Two ways that can be achieved is one, by seeing a Dr and being prescribed Viagra(Yes, it works to raise a women's testosterone level to.). Two, by one or two alcoholic drinks, not to get drunk, just tipsy or even before it, as that also raises the testosterone levels.

One thing in the Lesbian community I found out when doing my Medic course, God bless Navy Chicks(It's now a Tri service course in Aus.). Some Lesbians like genetically masculine men, as in men with an abundance of testosterone. As excessive testosterone is believed to depict a larger sex drive. Yes, I was surprised to, Lesbians who like something else on the side...who would of thought. These Lesbians are hypersexed and they like hypersexed men.

[Queen B]

Well women generally don't orgasm all the time every time, there are better times of the month for sex then others.

I am halluvah lucky woman