Most men are lonely, why is this?

**Immanenz** · 02-19-2024, 11:05 AM

No, actually lately i ve met a woman who was in her 20s pretty hot but now she got chubby or let say even fat- a lot of work (did not finish her Master), no friends anymore, left her boyfriend 2 years ago- both contributed to her physcial and mental degenaration- she was extremly lonely, but despite all that one of the weirdest and shitties people i ve ever met.

There is this "Masochist" structure by Reich which in my experience is: fat/over-eating or over-stuffing themselves (alcohol, drugs) rather friendly but passive aggressive, unassertive and lazy/ did not finish their studies but think love or relationship will save them.

Oral structure is more common in women but not very common here nor i think in the US unlike the masochist. Shizoid by Reich- a lot more males of course, fantasy driven but sometimes good in science.

So i think men are more lonely in their early 20s- i was a lot for example- at one point i got skilled in getting women though and keeping some friends with similar interests. later on you find a lot of lonely women, as their attractiveness fades and they lose their friendships

**Hektor12** · 02-19-2024, 11:47 AM

%90 of men are basically useless for women. If they dont do anything, they will stay lonely for sure.

**Anglo-Celtic** · 02-19-2024, 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by Italicus

Why would you put yourself through such pain? Are you like one of those emo kids that like to cut themselves?

LOL I just watch clips of segments from time to time. I'm not masochistic enough to endure a whole show.

**BakersfieldChimp** · 02-19-2024, 04:05 PM

I don't give a flying fugue what 99.7% of the world thinks about me.
There are a few people who I probably care too much about their opinion of me.
Those are my true friends. there are only a handful of them.
I have had my ass saved several times by these people who have loved me enough to tell me the truth,