Moving to Kenya

[Lioncourt]

I don't know what is disrespectful about having a big ass. It's not like someone insulted her and I was happy about that.

People used to have arranged marriages and now we find this idea crazy. At the same time divorce rates are skyrocketing across the western world and people are afraid to marry.

Both sides grandparents married while they knew each other only for short time. Both marriages lasted lifetime. Just because in 21st century we do different doesn't mean it's necessarily better.

[Victor]

The main purpose of white people in Africa was to spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and bring civilization. This has been wonderfully successful in many SSA countries, which are now beginning to thrive, and are strongly Christian. Kenya is no exception to that rule.

There's a whole report about Orthodox Church growth in Kenya
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybpmqmEOLoM

[Brás Garcia de Mascarenhas]

I don't know what is disrespectful about having a big ass. It's not like someone insulted her and I was happy about that.

People used to have arranged marriages and now we find this idea crazy. At the same time divorce rates are skyrocketing across the western world and people are afraid to marry.

Both sides grandparents married while they knew each other only for short time. Both marriages lasted lifetime. Just because in 21st century we do different doesn't mean it's necessarily better.

I didn't say there was anything wrong with any physical attribute. I just find it strange that someone asks you that about the woman you supposedly want to start a family with and you reply with such levity. Maybe it's me who's old-fashioned or some cultural barrier, perhaps in some cultures men aren't as protective. Regardless of that, any question of sexual objectification about my girlfriend\wife would be crossing a line. My grandparents also married young, but that has nothing to do with the kind of relationship you're talking about. In which societies were arranged marriages common? In Bulgaria? India? Pakistan? In Portugal, as far as I know, I've never heard of such a thing, it's always been something almost exclusive to the nobility and aristocracy for interests of titles and inheritance, it wasn't a concern among peasants who had practically nothing.

[Universe]

I didn't say there was anything wrong with any physical attribute. I just find it strange that someone asks you that about the woman you supposedly want to start a family with and you reply with such levity. Maybe it's me who's old-fashioned or some cultural barrier, perhaps in some cultures men aren't as protective. Regardless of that, any question of sexual objectification about my girlfriend\wife would be crossing a line. My grandparents also married young, but that has nothing to do with the kind of relationship you're talking about. In which societies were arranged marriages common? In Bulgaria? India? Pakistan? In Portugal, as far as I know, I've never heard of such a thing, it's always been something almost exclusive to the nobility and aristocracy for interests of titles and inheritance, it wasn't a concern among peasants who had practically nothing.

I knew he was not going to take it the wrong way. He has a jokey personality and I saw him say he likes African women's body shapes.

[Universe]

Men's talk, misogynist talk, autistic talk, eastern european talk etc etc. I don't know what that was but we understood each other.

[Lioncourt]

Arranged marriages have been common in many Muslim and Hindu societies. But that's not the point as my marriage won't be arranged.

You can meet a woman in many ways, have relationship for years with her, live together before marriage and even that isn't an insurance for happy family life.

It's a lottery always.

And I see no reason to be protective about her because of some random guys comments on the internet who will never meet neither her nor me. I will react differently if for example a friend of mine makes a remark about her body, or someone who actually meets her and knows how she looks like.

[Mortimer]

I didn't say there was anything wrong with any physical attribute. I just find it strange that someone asks you that about the woman you supposedly want to start a family with and you reply with such levity. Maybe it's me who's old-fashioned or some cultural barrier, perhaps in some cultures men aren't as protective. Regardless of that, any question of sexual objectification about my girlfriend\wife would be crossing a line. My grandparents also married young, but that has nothing to do with the kind of relationship you're talking about. In which societies were arranged marriages common? In Bulgaria? India? Pakistan? In Portugal, as far as I know, I've never heard of such a thing, it's always been something almost exclusive to the nobility and aristocracy for interests of titles and inheritance, it wasn't a concern among peasants who had practically nothing.

But what would you do if someone asks about your girlfriend how would you react online and in real life

[Mortimer]

And I see no reason to be protective about her because of some random guys comments on the internet who will never meet neither her nor me. I will react differently if for example a friend of mine makes a remark about her body, or someone who actually meets her and knows how she looks like.

You should but i wonder how one can best react what one could do

[Lioncourt]

You should but i wonder how one can best react what one could do

It's best to ignore while staring at the person who asked the stupid question so that he realises it was awkward.

[Lioncourt]

My friend made some shocking discoveries about my Kenyan girlfriend. Just before her visa application. I have already done a lot and paid tickets and stuff. It's really sad.